Doe Boii
Don Juan
how do u get with a female u already talk to
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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- Thread starter Doe Boii
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Silkandsteel
Don Juan
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How long have you known her for?
Doe Boii
Don Juan
well i saw her at this party once but we didn't really talk (i wasn't interested then i had a girl with me) but now i know her vaguely like i say how are you doin and she says fine...i've only talked w/ her one on one once a couple weeks back.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
any more advice?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
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Don Juan
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alansp
New Member
First, you have to show you perceived her. Talk about that party you know her, say something like that:
"Hey, i remember you that party, in first impression i look you could be a nice girl but, but that day i was with another girl (you said) and i have no oportunity to know you better, you look an interesting girl maybe you really do.
Now, I am late for ... , maybe onde day we wil meet us again."
I'm shure next time she see you, she will come talk to you, then talk to her normally.
Then, you can try kiss her (if you see she is interested). "Now i see i am not wrong you are really a nice or good girl." ****
It's just an idea, it's how i do. Try to adapt this on your way.
I hope have helped you.
Good Aproche!!!
"Hey, i remember you that party, in first impression i look you could be a nice girl but, but that day i was with another girl (you said) and i have no oportunity to know you better, you look an interesting girl maybe you really do.
Now, I am late for ... , maybe onde day we wil meet us again."
I'm shure next time she see you, she will come talk to you, then talk to her normally.
Then, you can try kiss her (if you see she is interested). "Now i see i am not wrong you are really a nice or good girl." ****
It's just an idea, it's how i do. Try to adapt this on your way.
I hope have helped you.
Good Aproche!!!
April_Infinite
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Are you close friends with her?
Doe Boii
Don Juan
not really close but now we are starting to talk alot more...i guess im just lacking a little in the confidence department. i only talk to her when i say hey to her in the hallway, and when she play slaps me (isn't this a sign they're interested, hitting means they like you?) So how can i boost up my confidence around women.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
read thesebuilding confidence
over come shyness
Overcome fear of rejection
How to show confidence even if you don't have it
i know there are plenty of more articles about confidence how to boost yourself and all that but here just a few i picked out i think might help if they dont then post back let me know
over come shyness
Overcome fear of rejection
How to show confidence even if you don't have it
i know there are plenty of more articles about confidence how to boost yourself and all that but here just a few i picked out i think might help if they dont then post back let me know
alansp's tips sound productive but you need abit of ****yness:
Hey, i rember seeing you at xxx party. because you were to shy to talk to a handsome chunk like me(****y smile) i will do it for you.
This is just an idea.
Hey, i rember seeing you at xxx party. because you were to shy to talk to a handsome chunk like me(****y smile) i will do it for you.
This is just an idea.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
I like this advice it goes with the personality i have ...confident but joke around alot.Lompa said:alansp's tips sound productive but you need abit of ****yness:
Hey, i rember seeing you at xxx party. because you were to shy to talk to a handsome chunk like me(****y smile) i will do it for you.
This is just an idea.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
is hitting good...cuz in the last few days i've started talkin with her more and she likes to play slap me on my face and say im her "slap buddy". i heard somewhere that hittin means a girl likes you. is this true or what does this mean?
''Slap Buddy'' ?? Sir please, hand over your testicles right nowis hitting good...cuz in the last few days i've started talkin with her more and she likes to play slap me on my face and say im her "slap buddy". i heard somewhere that hittin means a girl likes you. is this true or what does this mean?
-Cod3r
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Doe Boii
Don Juan
nah she aint slappin the sh*t outta me or somethin just light little taps...i dont let nobody slap me hard
Doe Boii
Don Juan
and advice only not lame wack little replies and stupid commentsCod3r said:''Slap Buddy'' ?? Sir please, hand over your testicles right now
-Cod3r
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Don Juan
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Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
You like to bump huh?
go to the main site...
SoSuave
Skim through the articles. There are tons of things about turning friends into girl friends, escaping the "friend zone" etc. EVERY DJ principle can be aimed towards ANY girl, no matter how familiar you two are. Theres no specific "You already know her, do this" technique. It's the same with every girl. You must adapt to yourself, and then apply your "techniques" to her, adjusting and using different "weapons" based on how she reacts. You need to learn to judge and react instantaneously.
go to the main site...
SoSuave
Skim through the articles. There are tons of things about turning friends into girl friends, escaping the "friend zone" etc. EVERY DJ principle can be aimed towards ANY girl, no matter how familiar you two are. Theres no specific "You already know her, do this" technique. It's the same with every girl. You must adapt to yourself, and then apply your "techniques" to her, adjusting and using different "weapons" based on how she reacts. You need to learn to judge and react instantaneously.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.