I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Zarky said:I found them pretty predictable and eventually dull. Until the virgin thing became clear. The fact that a literal 40-year-old virgin was giving people advice on how to get laid pretty much sums up the internet.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yep, blatantly NN. You'd think he'd put this sort of effort into losing his virginity, wouldn't you?ScottMustaine said:You guys stoopid or what ?
BlackBear is either NN or Sageproduct.
Look at the past threads.
I agree wholeheartedly. Those two virgin losers were something else weren't they? Good riddance to both of them. Now we can all get back to posting our stories of epic game.White Boy said:I'm glad losers like those two exist, because they make me feel better about myself
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm neither NN nor SausageProduct :moon:ScottMustaine said:You guys stoopid or what ?
BlackBear is either NN or Sageproduct.
Look at the past threads.
Umm... didn't you understand that the post to which you refer, which I assume is this one....Alvafe said:well I guess it true then, if zarky is saying both are dull they are doing something right,
and I read her/him last post on her matingmarket, first and last time, I did read things some angry guys write or are really liekyou guys say white knights, but that only post make me feel sad about the person writing that up.... looks like the person is bitter, really hate other people, and want to hide all her fear, hate and sadness in a mask of I will change the world.
Fixed it for ya.Burroughs said:haha says Zarky
The 38 year old homeless angry lesbian who has been trolling men's forums for 15 years. :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Also: miss, not "misses".BlackBear said:btw I made only one thread before, so it is not "threads".
Here some first grade grammar lessons:
http://firstschoolyears.com/literacy/word/other/plurals/resources/rules.htm
Is there a rule that members of this site must be over 18?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
How about BrownBear/BrownSpice/JackRobinBlackBear said:I'm neither NN nor SausageProduct :moon:
JackRobin is Ronaldo7 AKA jgamaibiMike32ct said:How about BrownBear/BrownSpice/JackRobin?
I used up one of my guesses thenBlackBear said:JackRobin is Ronaldo7 AKA jgamaibi
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=202477
So guess I'm not JackRobin then![]()
I don't know who BrownSpice is so... Guess you only have one left thoughMike32ct said:I used up one of my guesses then. I only have two left...