Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Zarky said:I found them pretty predictable and eventually dull. Until the virgin thing became clear. The fact that a literal 40-year-old virgin was giving people advice on how to get laid pretty much sums up the internet.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yep, blatantly NN. You'd think he'd put this sort of effort into losing his virginity, wouldn't you?ScottMustaine said:You guys stoopid or what ?
BlackBear is either NN or Sageproduct.
Look at the past threads.
I agree wholeheartedly. Those two virgin losers were something else weren't they? Good riddance to both of them. Now we can all get back to posting our stories of epic game.White Boy said:I'm glad losers like those two exist, because they make me feel better about myself
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I'm neither NN nor SausageProduct :moon:ScottMustaine said:You guys stoopid or what ?
BlackBear is either NN or Sageproduct.
Look at the past threads.
Umm... didn't you understand that the post to which you refer, which I assume is this one....Alvafe said:well I guess it true then, if zarky is saying both are dull they are doing something right,
and I read her/him last post on her matingmarket, first and last time, I did read things some angry guys write or are really liekyou guys say white knights, but that only post make me feel sad about the person writing that up.... looks like the person is bitter, really hate other people, and want to hide all her fear, hate and sadness in a mask of I will change the world.
Fixed it for ya.Burroughs said:haha says Zarky
The 38 year old homeless angry lesbian who has been trolling men's forums for 15 years. :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Also: miss, not "misses".BlackBear said:btw I made only one thread before, so it is not "threads".
Here some first grade grammar lessons:
http://firstschoolyears.com/literacy/word/other/plurals/resources/rules.htm
Is there a rule that members of this site must be over 18?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How about BrownBear/BrownSpice/JackRobinBlackBear said:I'm neither NN nor SausageProduct :moon:
JackRobin is Ronaldo7 AKA jgamaibiMike32ct said:How about BrownBear/BrownSpice/JackRobin?
I used up one of my guesses thenBlackBear said:JackRobin is Ronaldo7 AKA jgamaibi
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=202477
So guess I'm not JackRobin then![]()
I don't know who BrownSpice is so... Guess you only have one left thoughMike32ct said:I used up one of my guesses then. I only have two left...