You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Zarky said:I found them pretty predictable and eventually dull. Until the virgin thing became clear. The fact that a literal 40-year-old virgin was giving people advice on how to get laid pretty much sums up the internet.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yep, blatantly NN. You'd think he'd put this sort of effort into losing his virginity, wouldn't you?ScottMustaine said:You guys stoopid or what ?
BlackBear is either NN or Sageproduct.
Look at the past threads.
I agree wholeheartedly. Those two virgin losers were something else weren't they? Good riddance to both of them. Now we can all get back to posting our stories of epic game.White Boy said:I'm glad losers like those two exist, because they make me feel better about myself
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm neither NN nor SausageProduct :moon:ScottMustaine said:You guys stoopid or what ?
BlackBear is either NN or Sageproduct.
Look at the past threads.
Umm... didn't you understand that the post to which you refer, which I assume is this one....Alvafe said:well I guess it true then, if zarky is saying both are dull they are doing something right,
and I read her/him last post on her matingmarket, first and last time, I did read things some angry guys write or are really liekyou guys say white knights, but that only post make me feel sad about the person writing that up.... looks like the person is bitter, really hate other people, and want to hide all her fear, hate and sadness in a mask of I will change the world.
Fixed it for ya.Burroughs said:haha says Zarky
The 38 year old homeless angry lesbian who has been trolling men's forums for 15 years. :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Also: miss, not "misses".BlackBear said:btw I made only one thread before, so it is not "threads".
Here some first grade grammar lessons:
http://firstschoolyears.com/literacy/word/other/plurals/resources/rules.htm
Is there a rule that members of this site must be over 18?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How about BrownBear/BrownSpice/JackRobinBlackBear said:I'm neither NN nor SausageProduct :moon:
JackRobin is Ronaldo7 AKA jgamaibiMike32ct said:How about BrownBear/BrownSpice/JackRobin?
I used up one of my guesses thenBlackBear said:JackRobin is Ronaldo7 AKA jgamaibi
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=202477
So guess I'm not JackRobin then![]()
I don't know who BrownSpice is so... Guess you only have one left thoughMike32ct said:I used up one of my guesses then. I only have two left...