You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Zarky said:I found them pretty predictable and eventually dull. Until the virgin thing became clear. The fact that a literal 40-year-old virgin was giving people advice on how to get laid pretty much sums up the internet.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Yep, blatantly NN. You'd think he'd put this sort of effort into losing his virginity, wouldn't you?ScottMustaine said:You guys stoopid or what ?
BlackBear is either NN or Sageproduct.
Look at the past threads.
I agree wholeheartedly. Those two virgin losers were something else weren't they? Good riddance to both of them. Now we can all get back to posting our stories of epic game.White Boy said:I'm glad losers like those two exist, because they make me feel better about myself
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm neither NN nor SausageProduct :moon:ScottMustaine said:You guys stoopid or what ?
BlackBear is either NN or Sageproduct.
Look at the past threads.
Umm... didn't you understand that the post to which you refer, which I assume is this one....Alvafe said:well I guess it true then, if zarky is saying both are dull they are doing something right,
and I read her/him last post on her matingmarket, first and last time, I did read things some angry guys write or are really liekyou guys say white knights, but that only post make me feel sad about the person writing that up.... looks like the person is bitter, really hate other people, and want to hide all her fear, hate and sadness in a mask of I will change the world.
Fixed it for ya.Burroughs said:haha says Zarky
The 38 year old homeless angry lesbian who has been trolling men's forums for 15 years. :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Also: miss, not "misses".BlackBear said:btw I made only one thread before, so it is not "threads".
Here some first grade grammar lessons:
http://firstschoolyears.com/literacy/word/other/plurals/resources/rules.htm
Is there a rule that members of this site must be over 18?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How about BrownBear/BrownSpice/JackRobinBlackBear said:I'm neither NN nor SausageProduct :moon:
JackRobin is Ronaldo7 AKA jgamaibiMike32ct said:How about BrownBear/BrownSpice/JackRobin?
I used up one of my guesses thenBlackBear said:JackRobin is Ronaldo7 AKA jgamaibi
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=202477
So guess I'm not JackRobin then![]()
I don't know who BrownSpice is so... Guess you only have one left thoughMike32ct said:I used up one of my guesses then. I only have two left...