"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Anyone know how to lower waist sizes?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I'm at 9.5% down from 12-15% from six months ago just from dieting and little cardio. I'm looking to drop to 6-7%,I didn't think that I would lose 1-2 inches off the waist just from that,I would be nice though.Warboss Alex said:Lose fat.
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Any particular reason you want to make your waist smaller?
blinkwatt said:I'm currently in the 31 or 30 waist size at the moment. I would like to drop down to the 29 28 region. Anyone know of a way to do that?
eat protein for a change and get a chest and it will look smaller
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I already have a decent sized chest for my height and I eat enough protein. Go look at Arnold's waist,tell me that that didn't have something to do with his success?mrRuckus said:eat protein for a change and get a chest and it will look smaller
The smaller the waist,the bigger your upper body looks.Warboss Alex said:Any particular reason you want to make your waist smaller?
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Similiarly, the bigger your upperbody the smaller your waist looks. Hit the gym.blinkwatt said:The smaller the waist,the bigger your upper body looks.
no you don'tblinkwatt said:I already have a decent sized chest for my height and I eat enough protein.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.