"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Anyone know how to lower waist sizes?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I'm at 9.5% down from 12-15% from six months ago just from dieting and little cardio. I'm looking to drop to 6-7%,I didn't think that I would lose 1-2 inches off the waist just from that,I would be nice though.Warboss Alex said:Lose fat.
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Any particular reason you want to make your waist smaller?
blinkwatt said:I'm currently in the 31 or 30 waist size at the moment. I would like to drop down to the 29 28 region. Anyone know of a way to do that?
eat protein for a change and get a chest and it will look smaller
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I already have a decent sized chest for my height and I eat enough protein. Go look at Arnold's waist,tell me that that didn't have something to do with his success?mrRuckus said:eat protein for a change and get a chest and it will look smaller
The smaller the waist,the bigger your upper body looks.Warboss Alex said:Any particular reason you want to make your waist smaller?
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Similiarly, the bigger your upperbody the smaller your waist looks. Hit the gym.blinkwatt said:The smaller the waist,the bigger your upper body looks.
no you don'tblinkwatt said:I already have a decent sized chest for my height and I eat enough protein.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.