"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anyone know how to lower waist sizes?

blinkwatt

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I'm currently in the 31 or 30 waist size at the moment. I would like to drop down to the 29 28 region. Anyone know of a way to do that?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Warboss Alex said:
Lose fat.
I'm at 9.5% down from 12-15% from six months ago just from dieting and little cardio. I'm looking to drop to 6-7%,I didn't think that I would lose 1-2 inches off the waist just from that,I would be nice though.
 

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Generally it's 1% per inch off your waist or thereabouts but I'm not sure how well that holds when you get to such a low bf%.

Any particular reason you want to make your waist smaller?
 

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blinkwatt said:
I'm currently in the 31 or 30 waist size at the moment. I would like to drop down to the 29 28 region. Anyone know of a way to do that?

eat protein for a change and get a chest and it will look smaller
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mrRuckus said:
eat protein for a change and get a chest and it will look smaller
I already have a decent sized chest for my height and I eat enough protein. Go look at Arnold's waist,tell me that that didn't have something to do with his success?
 

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Warboss Alex said:
Any particular reason you want to make your waist smaller?
The smaller the waist,the bigger your upper body looks.
 

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blinkwatt said:
The smaller the waist,the bigger your upper body looks.
Similiarly, the bigger your upperbody the smaller your waist looks. Hit the gym.
 

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your waist can only get so small. you have hips made of bone that limit your frame size. getting rid of the fat helps. when i say fat i mean back fat and side fat too. getting bigger in the chest back and shoulders makes your waist look smaller. how ever you need to keep things in proportion. add thickness to your back to help make your waist look smaller in 3-D space
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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