Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'm at 9.5% down from 12-15% from six months ago just from dieting and little cardio. I'm looking to drop to 6-7%,I didn't think that I would lose 1-2 inches off the waist just from that,I would be nice though.Warboss Alex said:Lose fat.
blinkwatt said:I'm currently in the 31 or 30 waist size at the moment. I would like to drop down to the 29 28 region. Anyone know of a way to do that?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I already have a decent sized chest for my height and I eat enough protein. Go look at Arnold's waist,tell me that that didn't have something to do with his success?mrRuckus said:eat protein for a change and get a chest and it will look smaller
The smaller the waist,the bigger your upper body looks.Warboss Alex said:Any particular reason you want to make your waist smaller?
Similiarly, the bigger your upperbody the smaller your waist looks. Hit the gym.blinkwatt said:The smaller the waist,the bigger your upper body looks.
no you don'tblinkwatt said:I already have a decent sized chest for my height and I eat enough protein.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.