"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anyone go on cruises to pick up on chicks?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/07/03/travel/cruises-are-awesome.html

I should say that my only experience on a cruise was in as a large high school group (all-boy's school ), and since there was no accompanying all-girl's school cohort :mad:, it was amongst the hardest pickup environment I think I've ever encountered - although there was some cougar action for those who were mature enough to go for that. :eek: I suppose it was OK, but there was something about the confinement that did not feel so good; maybe if I had had a room where the toilet was not directly under the showerhead, it would have been better. :eek::eek:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I didn't go on a cruise to pick up chicks but while I was on one I had a pretty torrid 4 days of sex after meeting a hottie halfway thru the cruise in the lounge one night...

We must have banged at least 30 times in those 4 days...literally all night and sometimes we didn't even get off the ship to go out for more than an hour...

Alas she lived in California and I in Ohio at the time so we both knew nothing would come out of it...but sometimes that makes for the hottest sex where both people are all in and anything goes.
 
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Similar experience here like "marmel75" said... :) I was on a cruiser, installed 5-6 most popular hookup apps, all are free anyway, and then started to "research" does any girl on cruiser have some of those apps installed. After day one, I found a chick on the app, we meet a few hours later and those few days sex was mindblowing :)

I think that cruising like summer vacations are the best places to get laid fast. Because everybody is there to have some fun.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Now I found this thread so wanted to ask, did you went to cruising and if you are how it was, "MatureDJ"? :)
 
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