"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Anyone go on cruises to pick up on chicks?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/07/03/travel/cruises-are-awesome.html

I should say that my only experience on a cruise was in as a large high school group (all-boy's school ), and since there was no accompanying all-girl's school cohort :mad:, it was amongst the hardest pickup environment I think I've ever encountered - although there was some cougar action for those who were mature enough to go for that. :eek: I suppose it was OK, but there was something about the confinement that did not feel so good; maybe if I had had a room where the toilet was not directly under the showerhead, it would have been better. :eek::eek:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I didn't go on a cruise to pick up chicks but while I was on one I had a pretty torrid 4 days of sex after meeting a hottie halfway thru the cruise in the lounge one night...

We must have banged at least 30 times in those 4 days...literally all night and sometimes we didn't even get off the ship to go out for more than an hour...

Alas she lived in California and I in Ohio at the time so we both knew nothing would come out of it...but sometimes that makes for the hottest sex where both people are all in and anything goes.
 

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Similar experience here like "marmel75" said... :) I was on a cruiser, installed 5-6 most popular hookup apps, all are free anyway, and then started to "research" does any girl on cruiser have some of those apps installed. After day one, I found a chick on the app, we meet a few hours later and those few days sex was mindblowing :)

I think that cruising like summer vacations are the best places to get laid fast. Because everybody is there to have some fun.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Now I found this thread so wanted to ask, did you went to cruising and if you are how it was, "MatureDJ"? :)
 
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