"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anyone go on cruises to pick up on chicks?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/07/03/travel/cruises-are-awesome.html

I should say that my only experience on a cruise was in as a large high school group (all-boy's school ), and since there was no accompanying all-girl's school cohort :mad:, it was amongst the hardest pickup environment I think I've ever encountered - although there was some cougar action for those who were mature enough to go for that. :eek: I suppose it was OK, but there was something about the confinement that did not feel so good; maybe if I had had a room where the toilet was not directly under the showerhead, it would have been better. :eek::eek:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I didn't go on a cruise to pick up chicks but while I was on one I had a pretty torrid 4 days of sex after meeting a hottie halfway thru the cruise in the lounge one night...

We must have banged at least 30 times in those 4 days...literally all night and sometimes we didn't even get off the ship to go out for more than an hour...

Alas she lived in California and I in Ohio at the time so we both knew nothing would come out of it...but sometimes that makes for the hottest sex where both people are all in and anything goes.
 

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Similar experience here like "marmel75" said... :) I was on a cruiser, installed 5-6 most popular hookup apps, all are free anyway, and then started to "research" does any girl on cruiser have some of those apps installed. After day one, I found a chick on the app, we meet a few hours later and those few days sex was mindblowing :)

I think that cruising like summer vacations are the best places to get laid fast. Because everybody is there to have some fun.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Now I found this thread so wanted to ask, did you went to cruising and if you are how it was, "MatureDJ"? :)
 
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