"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Anyone go on cruises to pick up on chicks?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this, and it got me interested:

https://www.nytimes.com/2018/07/03/travel/cruises-are-awesome.html

I should say that my only experience on a cruise was in as a large high school group (all-boy's school ), and since there was no accompanying all-girl's school cohort :mad:, it was amongst the hardest pickup environment I think I've ever encountered - although there was some cougar action for those who were mature enough to go for that. :eek: I suppose it was OK, but there was something about the confinement that did not feel so good; maybe if I had had a room where the toilet was not directly under the showerhead, it would have been better. :eek::eek:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I didn't go on a cruise to pick up chicks but while I was on one I had a pretty torrid 4 days of sex after meeting a hottie halfway thru the cruise in the lounge one night...

We must have banged at least 30 times in those 4 days...literally all night and sometimes we didn't even get off the ship to go out for more than an hour...

Alas she lived in California and I in Ohio at the time so we both knew nothing would come out of it...but sometimes that makes for the hottest sex where both people are all in and anything goes.
 

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Similar experience here like "marmel75" said... :) I was on a cruiser, installed 5-6 most popular hookup apps, all are free anyway, and then started to "research" does any girl on cruiser have some of those apps installed. After day one, I found a chick on the app, we meet a few hours later and those few days sex was mindblowing :)

I think that cruising like summer vacations are the best places to get laid fast. Because everybody is there to have some fun.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Now I found this thread so wanted to ask, did you went to cruising and if you are how it was, "MatureDJ"? :)
 
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