"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Any funny websites you go to when you are hih??

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Any funny websites you go to when you are hih??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ChrizZ said:
Talk about being right under your nose!

And true as fvck to boot!

Sometimes at work to pass time I go to the Dr. Phil message boards and paruse the idiocy there.

Talk about people living in a fvcked up reality.
 
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KarmaSutra said:
Talk about being right under your nose!

And true as fvck to boot!

Sometimes at work to pass time I go to the Dr. Phil message boards and paruse the idiocy there.

Talk about people living in a fvcked up reality.
Haha, yeah SoSuave!

I was on a sleeping pill when I wrote this...seeing blurry and sleepy.

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That was funny!

Nighthawk said:
LMS I really think you should post at Loveshack.
I'll be banned by the time I get to the fourth word - can you guess the word.. the sentence?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LMS what type of sleeping pill do you favour? I use Zopiclone. They are nice.
 
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Nighthawk said:
LMS what type of sleeping pill do you favour? I use Zopiclone. They are nice.
I believe those are allergy pills that make you drowsy - they are also used for anesthesia - i took an Ambien -- trying to break my schedule of going to bed at 6am - and posting on SoSuave
all night! :rolleyes:
 

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I dont get hih. You of all folks should know that anglo - saxons dont get hih. There are too many conspiracies to plot.
 
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belividere said:
I dont get hih. You of all folks should know that anglo - saxons dont get hih. There are too many conspiracies to plot.
Haha, TOUCHE!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Last Man Standing said:
I believe those are allergy pills that make you drowsy - they are also used for anesthesia - i took an Ambien -- trying to break my schedule of going to bed at 6am - and posting on SoSuave
all night! :rolleyes:
Nope they're straight up hypnotics. I haven't had Ambien, sound nice.

Note to impressionable youngsters - I am allowed because I have chronic insomnia since birth. Don't get hooked on pills! Stay in school!
 
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