CaptainSlinky
Master Don Juan
Holy **** man, that was an AMAZING post!! Definately front page material, covers the whole DJ philosophy.
Kudos (fun word to say)
Kudos (fun word to say)
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
An interesting post first placed on gp.com
- Thread starter Sir_Chancealot
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Nightwing
Master Don Juan
I read that post over at the GP site and thought it was excellent!!!
I agree with what is said in the above quote and the reality is that women validate it themselves when you hear the following comments:
"I cant stand being around a group of women."
"Whenever you have a group of women, youre going to have problems."
or
"I trust trust women."
I never heard a man say this about other men.
Ralfus
Master Don Juan
Very well thought out!
copy and pasting to friends right now.
Ralfus
copy and pasting to friends right now.
Ralfus
TheRockStar
Senior Don Juan
oh i just had to bump this post again i can just read it over and over and it gets better and more inspirational each time i read it.
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Got a drum life?
"No little perv bull**** is gonna work with this one, you gotta play it smooth, be Don Juan de la Nootch"- Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back.
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Got a drum life?
"No little perv bull**** is gonna work with this one, you gotta play it smooth, be Don Juan de la Nootch"- Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
WizardOfOz
Don Juan
Fantastic work Sir Chancelot.
On this planet, you're making a big difference (don't go to Mars).
On this planet, you're making a big difference (don't go to Mars).
SoSuave.com
Administrator
Moved to The Archive. Reply there.
Lorenzo
Master Don Juan
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What beautiful memories!
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Anthony (Lorenzo)
AIM: KinoOI
E-mail: [email protected]
The DJ Bible ~or~ The High School Don Juan Bible
“Carpe Diem."
What beautiful memories!
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Master Don Juan
Anthony (Lorenzo)
AIM: KinoOI
E-mail: [email protected]
The DJ Bible ~or~ The High School Don Juan Bible
“Carpe Diem."
giyabonga
New Member
Awesome post Sir_Chancealot!!!
I just wish my dad or my brother had taught me stuff like this about women. I know if I ever have a son he'll be taught from day one how to be a man!!
You did forget to mention that DJ principles also help to keep women interested in LTR's. I've had that problem in relationships too.
Thanks again and to all the other guys giving advice...
I just wish my dad or my brother had taught me stuff like this about women. I know if I ever have a son he'll be taught from day one how to be a man!!
You did forget to mention that DJ principles also help to keep women interested in LTR's. I've had that problem in relationships too.
Thanks again and to all the other guys giving advice...
De La Soul
Master Don Juan
Bump.
Great post.
Great post.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
you really think that site makes more for regression?
instead of... transgression
i didnt become a jerk. was really defensive at first, but i sucked it up and learned from it
i dont know havent been there long enough to see any long term results (on other people)
instead of... transgression
i didnt become a jerk. was really defensive at first, but i sucked it up and learned from it
i dont know havent been there long enough to see any long term results (on other people)
gp.com = http://www.girlproblems.com/forum/
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april-ai
Guest
I admit, this WOULD be indeed hard.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
eroq
Don Juan
I'm not down for the random flaming, but I can't find GirlProblems either. Is the site defunct now, or what?
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Sir Chancealot? I...I...love you.
HAha, great post man. I'm a new DJ, and I know this stuff works.
HAha, great post man. I'm a new DJ, and I know this stuff works.
disciple
Senior Don Juan
This is something that alot of women need to read so they can shut the hell up.
Good post man!!
Good post man!!
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
How did I miss this? This is on point.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
bump... i miss sir chancealot
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.