CaptainSlinky
Master Don Juan
Holy **** man, that was an AMAZING post!! Definately front page material, covers the whole DJ philosophy.
Kudos (fun word to say)
Kudos (fun word to say)
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
An interesting post first placed on gp.com
- Thread starter Sir_Chancealot
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Nightwing
Master Don Juan
I read that post over at the GP site and thought it was excellent!!!
I agree with what is said in the above quote and the reality is that women validate it themselves when you hear the following comments:
"I cant stand being around a group of women."
"Whenever you have a group of women, youre going to have problems."
or
"I trust trust women."
I never heard a man say this about other men.
Ralfus
Master Don Juan
Very well thought out!
copy and pasting to friends right now.
Ralfus
copy and pasting to friends right now.
Ralfus
TheRockStar
Senior Don Juan
oh i just had to bump this post again i can just read it over and over and it gets better and more inspirational each time i read it.
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Got a drum life?
"No little perv bull**** is gonna work with this one, you gotta play it smooth, be Don Juan de la Nootch"- Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back.
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Got a drum life?
"No little perv bull**** is gonna work with this one, you gotta play it smooth, be Don Juan de la Nootch"- Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
WizardOfOz
Don Juan
Fantastic work Sir Chancelot.
On this planet, you're making a big difference (don't go to Mars).
On this planet, you're making a big difference (don't go to Mars).
SoSuave.com
Administrator
Moved to The Archive. Reply there.
Lorenzo
Master Don Juan
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What beautiful memories!
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Anthony (Lorenzo)
AIM: KinoOI
E-mail: [email protected]
The DJ Bible ~or~ The High School Don Juan Bible
“Carpe Diem."
What beautiful memories!
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Master Don Juan
Anthony (Lorenzo)
AIM: KinoOI
E-mail: [email protected]
The DJ Bible ~or~ The High School Don Juan Bible
“Carpe Diem."
giyabonga
New Member
Awesome post Sir_Chancealot!!!
I just wish my dad or my brother had taught me stuff like this about women. I know if I ever have a son he'll be taught from day one how to be a man!!
You did forget to mention that DJ principles also help to keep women interested in LTR's. I've had that problem in relationships too.
Thanks again and to all the other guys giving advice...
I just wish my dad or my brother had taught me stuff like this about women. I know if I ever have a son he'll be taught from day one how to be a man!!
You did forget to mention that DJ principles also help to keep women interested in LTR's. I've had that problem in relationships too.
Thanks again and to all the other guys giving advice...
De La Soul
Master Don Juan
Bump.
Great post.
Great post.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
you really think that site makes more for regression?
instead of... transgression
i didnt become a jerk. was really defensive at first, but i sucked it up and learned from it
i dont know havent been there long enough to see any long term results (on other people)
instead of... transgression
i didnt become a jerk. was really defensive at first, but i sucked it up and learned from it
i dont know havent been there long enough to see any long term results (on other people)
gp.com = http://www.girlproblems.com/forum/
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april-ai
Guest
I admit, this WOULD be indeed hard.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
eroq
Don Juan
I'm not down for the random flaming, but I can't find GirlProblems either. Is the site defunct now, or what?
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Sir Chancealot? I...I...love you.
HAha, great post man. I'm a new DJ, and I know this stuff works.
HAha, great post man. I'm a new DJ, and I know this stuff works.
disciple
Senior Don Juan
This is something that alot of women need to read so they can shut the hell up.
Good post man!!
Good post man!!
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
How did I miss this? This is on point.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
bump... i miss sir chancealot
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.