"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Holy **** man, that was an AMAZING post!! Definately front page material, covers the whole DJ philosophy.
Kudos (fun word to say)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Sir_Chancealot:


Yes, in today's world, most women ARE mean, heartless, and conniving. That is reality. Are there exceptions? Sure are. But they are rare.


I read that post over at the GP site and thought it was excellent!!!

I agree with what is said in the above quote and the reality is that women validate it themselves when you hear the following comments:

"I cant stand being around a group of women."

"Whenever you have a group of women, youre going to have problems."

or

"I trust trust women."

I never heard a man say this about other men.
 

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Very well thought out!

copy and pasting to friends right now.

Ralfus
 

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oh i just had to bump this post again i can just read it over and over and it gets better and more inspirational each time i read it.

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Got a drum life?

"No little perv bull**** is gonna work with this one, you gotta play it smooth, be Don Juan de la Nootch"- Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Awesome post Sir_Chancealot!!!

I just wish my dad or my brother had taught me stuff like this about women. I know if I ever have a son he'll be taught from day one how to be a man!!

You did forget to mention that DJ principles also help to keep women interested in LTR's. I've had that problem in relationships too.

Thanks again and to all the other guys giving advice...
 

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It's a badly-kept secret.
Bump.
Great post.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you really think that site makes more for regression?
instead of... transgression
i didnt become a jerk. was really defensive at first, but i sucked it up and learned from it
i dont know havent been there long enough to see any long term results (on other people)
 

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is the GP site down?
 
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This weekend, every time you see a "hot", "gorgeous", or "hunky" guy, YOU WALK RIGHT UP TO HIM AND ASK HIM OUT. Do this 10 times.
I admit, this WOULD be indeed hard.
 

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Good points Chance...

Where is girlproblems.com? I went to the site and all I saw was "Find a Hot Date Tonite ! hot bikini babes !" Anyone know any chick forums so that we can flame some sense into these c0ckblockers?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm not down for the random flaming, but I can't find GirlProblems either. Is the site defunct now, or what?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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