CaptainSlinky
Master Don Juan
Holy **** man, that was an AMAZING post!! Definately front page material, covers the whole DJ philosophy.
Kudos (fun word to say)
Kudos (fun word to say)
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
An interesting post first placed on gp.com
- Thread starter Sir_Chancealot
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Nightwing
Master Don Juan
I read that post over at the GP site and thought it was excellent!!!
I agree with what is said in the above quote and the reality is that women validate it themselves when you hear the following comments:
"I cant stand being around a group of women."
"Whenever you have a group of women, youre going to have problems."
or
"I trust trust women."
I never heard a man say this about other men.
Ralfus
Master Don Juan
Very well thought out!
copy and pasting to friends right now.
Ralfus
copy and pasting to friends right now.
Ralfus
TheRockStar
Senior Don Juan
oh i just had to bump this post again i can just read it over and over and it gets better and more inspirational each time i read it.
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Got a drum life?
"No little perv bull**** is gonna work with this one, you gotta play it smooth, be Don Juan de la Nootch"- Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back.
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Got a drum life?
"No little perv bull**** is gonna work with this one, you gotta play it smooth, be Don Juan de la Nootch"- Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
WizardOfOz
Don Juan
Fantastic work Sir Chancelot.
On this planet, you're making a big difference (don't go to Mars).
On this planet, you're making a big difference (don't go to Mars).
SoSuave.com
Administrator
Moved to The Archive. Reply there.
Lorenzo
Master Don Juan
<Tear>
What beautiful memories!
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Anthony (Lorenzo)
AIM: KinoOI
E-mail: [email protected]
The DJ Bible ~or~ The High School Don Juan Bible
“Carpe Diem."
What beautiful memories!
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Master Don Juan
Anthony (Lorenzo)
AIM: KinoOI
E-mail: [email protected]
The DJ Bible ~or~ The High School Don Juan Bible
“Carpe Diem."
giyabonga
New Member
Awesome post Sir_Chancealot!!!
I just wish my dad or my brother had taught me stuff like this about women. I know if I ever have a son he'll be taught from day one how to be a man!!
You did forget to mention that DJ principles also help to keep women interested in LTR's. I've had that problem in relationships too.
Thanks again and to all the other guys giving advice...
I just wish my dad or my brother had taught me stuff like this about women. I know if I ever have a son he'll be taught from day one how to be a man!!
You did forget to mention that DJ principles also help to keep women interested in LTR's. I've had that problem in relationships too.
Thanks again and to all the other guys giving advice...
De La Soul
Master Don Juan
Bump.
Great post.
Great post.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
you really think that site makes more for regression?
instead of... transgression
i didnt become a jerk. was really defensive at first, but i sucked it up and learned from it
i dont know havent been there long enough to see any long term results (on other people)
instead of... transgression
i didnt become a jerk. was really defensive at first, but i sucked it up and learned from it
i dont know havent been there long enough to see any long term results (on other people)
gp.com = http://www.girlproblems.com/forum/
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april-ai
Guest
I admit, this WOULD be indeed hard.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
eroq
Don Juan
I'm not down for the random flaming, but I can't find GirlProblems either. Is the site defunct now, or what?
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Sir Chancealot? I...I...love you.
HAha, great post man. I'm a new DJ, and I know this stuff works.
HAha, great post man. I'm a new DJ, and I know this stuff works.
disciple
Senior Don Juan
This is something that alot of women need to read so they can shut the hell up.
Good post man!!
Good post man!!
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
How did I miss this? This is on point.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
bump... i miss sir chancealot
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.