CaptainSlinky
Master Don Juan
Holy **** man, that was an AMAZING post!! Definately front page material, covers the whole DJ philosophy.
Kudos (fun word to say)
Kudos (fun word to say)
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
An interesting post first placed on gp.com
- Thread starter Sir_Chancealot
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Nightwing
Master Don Juan
I read that post over at the GP site and thought it was excellent!!!
I agree with what is said in the above quote and the reality is that women validate it themselves when you hear the following comments:
"I cant stand being around a group of women."
"Whenever you have a group of women, youre going to have problems."
or
"I trust trust women."
I never heard a man say this about other men.
Ralfus
Master Don Juan
Very well thought out!
copy and pasting to friends right now.
Ralfus
copy and pasting to friends right now.
Ralfus
TheRockStar
Senior Don Juan
oh i just had to bump this post again i can just read it over and over and it gets better and more inspirational each time i read it.
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"No little perv bull**** is gonna work with this one, you gotta play it smooth, be Don Juan de la Nootch"- Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back.
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Got a drum life?
"No little perv bull**** is gonna work with this one, you gotta play it smooth, be Don Juan de la Nootch"- Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
WizardOfOz
Don Juan
Fantastic work Sir Chancelot.
On this planet, you're making a big difference (don't go to Mars).
On this planet, you're making a big difference (don't go to Mars).
SoSuave.com
Administrator
Moved to The Archive. Reply there.
Lorenzo
Master Don Juan
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What beautiful memories!
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Anthony (Lorenzo)
AIM: KinoOI
E-mail: [email protected]
The DJ Bible ~or~ The High School Don Juan Bible
“Carpe Diem."
What beautiful memories!
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Master Don Juan
Anthony (Lorenzo)
AIM: KinoOI
E-mail: [email protected]
The DJ Bible ~or~ The High School Don Juan Bible
“Carpe Diem."
giyabonga
New Member
Awesome post Sir_Chancealot!!!
I just wish my dad or my brother had taught me stuff like this about women. I know if I ever have a son he'll be taught from day one how to be a man!!
You did forget to mention that DJ principles also help to keep women interested in LTR's. I've had that problem in relationships too.
Thanks again and to all the other guys giving advice...
I just wish my dad or my brother had taught me stuff like this about women. I know if I ever have a son he'll be taught from day one how to be a man!!
You did forget to mention that DJ principles also help to keep women interested in LTR's. I've had that problem in relationships too.
Thanks again and to all the other guys giving advice...
De La Soul
Master Don Juan
Bump.
Great post.
Great post.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
you really think that site makes more for regression?
instead of... transgression
i didnt become a jerk. was really defensive at first, but i sucked it up and learned from it
i dont know havent been there long enough to see any long term results (on other people)
instead of... transgression
i didnt become a jerk. was really defensive at first, but i sucked it up and learned from it
i dont know havent been there long enough to see any long term results (on other people)
gp.com = http://www.girlproblems.com/forum/
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april-ai
Guest
I admit, this WOULD be indeed hard.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
eroq
Don Juan
I'm not down for the random flaming, but I can't find GirlProblems either. Is the site defunct now, or what?
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Sir Chancealot? I...I...love you.
HAha, great post man. I'm a new DJ, and I know this stuff works.
HAha, great post man. I'm a new DJ, and I know this stuff works.
disciple
Senior Don Juan
This is something that alot of women need to read so they can shut the hell up.
Good post man!!
Good post man!!
So Many Ways
Master Don Juan
How did I miss this? This is on point.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
bump... i miss sir chancealot
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.