"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Holy **** man, that was an AMAZING post!! Definately front page material, covers the whole DJ philosophy.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Sir_Chancealot:


Yes, in today's world, most women ARE mean, heartless, and conniving. That is reality. Are there exceptions? Sure are. But they are rare.


I read that post over at the GP site and thought it was excellent!!!

I agree with what is said in the above quote and the reality is that women validate it themselves when you hear the following comments:

"I cant stand being around a group of women."

"Whenever you have a group of women, youre going to have problems."

or

"I trust trust women."

I never heard a man say this about other men.
 

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Very well thought out!

copy and pasting to friends right now.

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oh i just had to bump this post again i can just read it over and over and it gets better and more inspirational each time i read it.

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Got a drum life?

"No little perv bull**** is gonna work with this one, you gotta play it smooth, be Don Juan de la Nootch"- Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Awesome post Sir_Chancealot!!!

I just wish my dad or my brother had taught me stuff like this about women. I know if I ever have a son he'll be taught from day one how to be a man!!

You did forget to mention that DJ principles also help to keep women interested in LTR's. I've had that problem in relationships too.

Thanks again and to all the other guys giving advice...
 

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Bump.
Great post.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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you really think that site makes more for regression?
instead of... transgression
i didnt become a jerk. was really defensive at first, but i sucked it up and learned from it
i dont know havent been there long enough to see any long term results (on other people)
 

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is the GP site down?
 
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This weekend, every time you see a "hot", "gorgeous", or "hunky" guy, YOU WALK RIGHT UP TO HIM AND ASK HIM OUT. Do this 10 times.
I admit, this WOULD be indeed hard.
 

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Good points Chance...

Where is girlproblems.com? I went to the site and all I saw was "Find a Hot Date Tonite ! hot bikini babes !" Anyone know any chick forums so that we can flame some sense into these c0ckblockers?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm not down for the random flaming, but I can't find GirlProblems either. Is the site defunct now, or what?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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