I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
They're out there. I nearly married one, and would have had he not died. I loved him so much I didn't even notice another guy for the 5 years we were together.Originally posted by Virtú
Good luck finding a guy with both aspects well in hand.
Attentive & romantic and masculine & good looking rarely go together.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
^I have ass hair too.Originally posted by KillingTime
Yea, im not stupid... i know im whining and b*tching like a little girl in this post, but im pissed... this is the first time this has happened to me but ive been seeing a lot of other so called "nice guys" getting the women lately.
I see guys going against everything mentioned on this site and still getting the girl, oh well if anything im starting to have a different perspective on certain things.
At least this makes me forget about the ass hair problem!
Whoooossaaa!Originally posted by Evil-Rom
dont hate the player hate the game
...well, by coming to SS, you pretty much do that to begin with, unless you ignore every chick-related piece of advice here.Originally posted by KillingTime
I'd rather never have a woman, I'm not going to change who I am to please any girl.
uuuuhhhhh just stop boring the sh1t out of me.....if all is repetitive then why are you still here after more than 4years??BCAUZE YOUR'E A BOREMACHINE!!!!!LIKE A BOT WHO IS PROGRAMMED TO BORE THE FVCK OUT OF ME!!!!Originally posted by Wyldfire
Paardon me for pointing this out MR. CAPS, but everything said on this site is repetitive. That's the nature of the site...so deal. Also, if you guys would actually LISTEN to this fact the first time I wouldn't feel compelled to repeat it.
Give me an attentive and romantic guy who is masculine and good looking over any other type of guy any day.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
If you find my posts to be boring then don't read them, but don't expect me to alter my behavior to satisfy you...it's not happening.Originally posted by Double
uuuuhhhhh just stop boring the sh1t out of me.....if all is repetitive then why are you still here after more than 4years??BCAUZE YOUR'E A BOREMACHINE!!!!!LIKE A BOT WHO IS PROGRAMMED TO BORE THE FVCK OUT OF ME!!!!
oh girl i believe you with the last sentence , so better stop boring the **** out of me
Originally posted by Wyldfire
If you find my posts to be boring then don't read them, but don't expect me to alter my behavior to satisfy you...it's not happening.![]()
Ok, I'll be right over Wyldfire...Originally posted by Wyldfire
Paardon me for pointing this out MR. CAPS, but everything said on this site is repetitive. That's the nature of the site...so deal. Also, if you guys would actually LISTEN to this fact the first time I wouldn't feel compelled to repeat it.
Give me an attentive and romantic guy who is masculine and good looking over any other type of guy any day.
LOLOriginally posted by Keeper
Whoooossaaa!
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Yeah, it's actually a good thing most of the time. Especially if the first saw you and were attracted from seeing some sort of strong or dominant behaviour that they liked, and wern't entirely sure if you would be relationship material. In that case it is good to make compromises.Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
When a girl says "nice guy", her definition of a nice guy is a tad different from a guy's definition.
Ha...you couldn't handle me...and aren't you from Canada, the UK or some other third world country? heheheheheOriginally posted by Don Juanabbe
Ok, I'll be right over Wyldfire...![]()
No he's not...he's whining like a girl and writing like a 3rd grader.Originally posted by alphawolfx
he's neghitting wyldfire... lol
btw wyld, recently saw your pic, you're cute
so let me ask you a question, "who lies more? see i have this friend..."
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Id definitely have to put myself in that categoryAttentive & romantic and masculine & good looking rarely go together.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.