"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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An AFC stole my girl....

Virtú

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Good luck finding a guy with both aspects well in hand.

Attentive & romantic and masculine & good looking rarely go together.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Wyldfire

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Originally posted by Virtú
Good luck finding a guy with both aspects well in hand.

Attentive & romantic and masculine & good looking rarely go together.
They're out there. I nearly married one, and would have had he not died. I loved him so much I didn't even notice another guy for the 5 years we were together.
 

stalluproar

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It sounds like he ignited the jets with this girl pretty good. My guess is he can make her laugh and feel special. It also sounds like the afterburners are running with this one. Sooner or later the fuel is going to run out and this AFC you are complaining about will be a footnote in her life.
 

Kerensky

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sosuave.com is great, but apparently it's given you a superiority complex. Don't immediately put others down for your own weaknesses. That's not a good trait to have in any area of life. Assumptions lead to mistakes and mistakes are bad. So I say, instead of rejected his ways beacuse you immediately classify them as AFC (probably with no reason, but just to make yourself feel better), take what he's got, and what you got, and merge them. Then maybe your next post will be happier.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tha Realnezz

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Originally posted by KillingTime
Yea, im not stupid... i know im whining and b*tching like a little girl in this post, but im pissed... this is the first time this has happened to me but ive been seeing a lot of other so called "nice guys" getting the women lately.
I see guys going against everything mentioned on this site and still getting the girl, oh well if anything im starting to have a different perspective on certain things.

At least this makes me forget about the ass hair problem!
^I have ass hair too.

-Tha Realnezz...


Nah,he got her cuz she was getting your style on tap feel me?he had the bottled mineral imported from France type **** and she was floored by the remarkable difference in taste.

^lol.
 

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dont hate the player hate the game
 

Keeper

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Originally posted by Evil-Rom
dont hate the player hate the game
Whoooossaaa!
 

Double

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Paardon me for pointing this out MR. CAPS, but everything said on this site is repetitive. That's the nature of the site...so deal. Also, if you guys would actually LISTEN to this fact the first time I wouldn't feel compelled to repeat it.

Give me an attentive and romantic guy who is masculine and good looking over any other type of guy any day.
uuuuhhhhh just stop boring the sh1t out of me.....if all is repetitive then why are you still here after more than 4years??BCAUZE YOUR'E A BOREMACHINE!!!!!LIKE A BOT WHO IS PROGRAMMED TO BORE THE FVCK OUT OF ME!!!!

oh girl i believe you with the last sentence , so better stop boring the **** out of me
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Wyldfire

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Originally posted by Double
uuuuhhhhh just stop boring the sh1t out of me.....if all is repetitive then why are you still here after more than 4years??BCAUZE YOUR'E A BOREMACHINE!!!!!LIKE A BOT WHO IS PROGRAMMED TO BORE THE FVCK OUT OF ME!!!!

oh girl i believe you with the last sentence , so better stop boring the **** out of me
If you find my posts to be boring then don't read them, but don't expect me to alter my behavior to satisfy you...it's not happening. :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
If you find my posts to be boring then don't read them, but don't expect me to alter my behavior to satisfy you...it's not happening. :rolleyes:
:)
 

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When a girl says "nice guy", her definition of a nice guy is a tad different from a guy's definition.
 

Don Juanabbe

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Originally posted by Wyldfire
Paardon me for pointing this out MR. CAPS, but everything said on this site is repetitive. That's the nature of the site...so deal. Also, if you guys would actually LISTEN to this fact the first time I wouldn't feel compelled to repeat it.

Give me an attentive and romantic guy who is masculine and good looking over any other type of guy any day.
Ok, I'll be right over Wyldfire... ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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rgeere

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
When a girl says "nice guy", her definition of a nice guy is a tad different from a guy's definition.
Yeah, it's actually a good thing most of the time. Especially if the first saw you and were attracted from seeing some sort of strong or dominant behaviour that they liked, and wern't entirely sure if you would be relationship material. In that case it is good to make compromises.
 

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he's neghitting wyldfire... lol

btw wyld, recently saw your pic, you're cute
so let me ask you a question, "who lies more? see i have this friend..."

:)
 

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Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
Ok, I'll be right over Wyldfire... ;)
Ha...you couldn't handle me...and aren't you from Canada, the UK or some other third world country? hehehehehe
 

Wyldfire

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Originally posted by alphawolfx
he's neghitting wyldfire... lol

btw wyld, recently saw your pic, you're cute
so let me ask you a question, "who lies more? see i have this friend..."

:)
No he's not...he's whining like a girl and writing like a 3rd grader.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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