"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
An AFC stole my girl....
- Thread starter KillingTime
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
stalluproar
Senior Don Juan
Kerensky
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Tha Realnezz
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^I have ass hair too.
-Tha Realnezz...
Nah,he got her cuz she was getting your style on tap feel me?he had the bottled mineral imported from France type **** and she was floored by the remarkable difference in taste.
^lol.
Evil-Rom
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Keeper
Master Don Juan
Whoooossaaa!
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
...well, by coming to SS, you pretty much do that to begin with, unless you ignore every chick-related piece of advice here.
uuuuhhhhh just stop boring the sh1t out of me.....if all is repetitive then why are you still here after more than 4years??BCAUZE YOUR'E A BOREMACHINE!!!!!LIKE A BOT WHO IS PROGRAMMED TO BORE THE FVCK OUT OF ME!!!!
oh girl i believe you with the last sentence , so better stop boring the **** out of me
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Blue Phoenix
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Originally posted by Wyldfire
If you find my posts to be boring then don't read them, but don't expect me to alter my behavior to satisfy you...it's not happening.
diplomatic_lie
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Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
Ok, I'll be right over Wyldfire...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Yeah, it's actually a good thing most of the time. Especially if the first saw you and were attracted from seeing some sort of strong or dominant behaviour that they liked, and wern't entirely sure if you would be relationship material. In that case it is good to make compromises.
alphawolfx
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btw wyld, recently saw your pic, you're cute
so let me ask you a question, "who lies more? see i have this friend..."
No he's not...he's whining like a girl and writing like a 3rd grader.Originally posted by alphawolfx
he's neghitting wyldfire... lol
btw wyld, recently saw your pic, you're cute
so let me ask you a question, "who lies more? see i have this friend..."
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
Id definitely have to put myself in that category
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.