Originally posted by KillingTime
Yea, im not stupid... i know im whining and b*tching like a little girl in this post, but im pissed... this is the first time this has happened to me but ive been seeing a lot of other so called "nice guys" getting the women lately.
I see guys going against everything mentioned on this site and still getting the girl, oh well if anything im starting to have a different perspective on certain things!
It's about statistics. It's not like being AFC means you never get a woman,a nd being DJ means you always get a woman, or that an AFC guy never steals a DJ's woman. An AFC is rather less
likely to get a woman. He meets fewer women and is less likely to end up with ones that he really wants.
Whether or not either of you have game, or who has more of it, cannot be decided over
one woman.
But for you to even see yourself in competition with a guy means you are losing grip.
I'd be
delighted if a ``24/7 suck up'' stole the girl. I would be totally cool about it, and continue to monitor the situation to watch for signs of the guy flopping out with her. Haha.
The thing is that some women are sometimes initially taken by the guy who shows a great deal of attention to them. They don't necessarily get sick of that attention right away. So instead of being pissed off, just chuckle to yourself and wait. What the heck. If he's still calling her all the time and giving her all that attention two weeks hence, he will either be out of there. Or else she is pathetic for needing that kind of attention. If that's what she craves, she's probably not good for you.
You never know; maybe she is trying to play you too.
Also, what do you really know about the guy? Who is your information source about the guy's behavior? Is it her or her friends who are informing you that she has a guy who sucks up to her 24/7? These reports could be vastly exaggerated and distorted.
