"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ain't had sex since 2003. who can beat me?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
Every year that you get older, it will become increasingly hard to find a girl your age that is still a virgin (only guaruntee that she's clean).
How long are you going to wait? When you're 30 I doubt there will be any attractive virgin chicks left. They've either been having sex for over a decade or if they saved themselves for marriage, they are happily married or divorced, but either way, not virgins.
You'd be better off finding a girl your age that's still a virgin and getting an LTR with her now if you want to avoid diseases.
Think about it.
Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
At your age dude, its not that bad of a problem YET. In about 3 more years its going to concern you more....HandyAndy said:
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
Same here. but i got over 2 months to be 23 yr old V. I'm such an optimist. lol. But I'm really surprised, I cannot imagine american guys not getting laid by the time they are out of high school. I mean I was in a boys school my whole life, and raised in a conservative society. But you guys, seriously, how come?Rebound Material said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
phatboi408
Senior Don Juan
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
Rebound Material said:
I thought i was going to win with my desolate span of 6 yrs in the late 90's....but OH SH!T!!! That's quite herendous!!!
DO YOU LIVE IN SOME DESOLATE UNDERGROUND CAVE OR SOMETHIN??? :crackup: :crackup: All jokes aside...I think we have a winner!!!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
tony-montana
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i just rub off alot lol.
SilverSliver
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"I ain't had sex in years can you beat me (off)"
Can you believe it I got slapped
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Since when is there a rule that if your a dude and your a virgin, your first has to be a virgin?
I sometimes consider myself one as I'm 23 and have only been with one girl a few times. I've had other opportunities, but I just wasnt into the chicks.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
I dont think you can include Virgins in this.
Since they have never had sex they dont know what they are missing....
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
Oh crap!....so that means my answer doesnt count huh?Tomatoes said:
(cough)LUKE SKYWALKER!(ahem)Tomatoes said:
I haven't had sex since I was like 19. With a fxcking HORRIBLE sorority girl who lied about not being with other guys, not having STDs and she occsionally "forgets" to take the pill beforehand. Luckily she didn't get pregnant and I wasn't HIV positive. I wish I couldve waited because despite getting laid with 10 girls it's better to find a decent, clean woman. Hard part is finding a girl who's clean, STD free, nice, and willing to marry me, much less DATE me. LOL
So fellas if your'e still virgins please, please don't waste it on some trick, but if you do make sure you use protection if you don't want a kid or STDs. BTW the more mature the woman, the less she gives a fxck about your virginity. If y'all are too picky then honestly....youre doing something right.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.