"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ain't had sex since 2003. who can beat me?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
SmoothTalker
Master Don Juan
Every year that you get older, it will become increasingly hard to find a girl your age that is still a virgin (only guaruntee that she's clean).
How long are you going to wait? When you're 30 I doubt there will be any attractive virgin chicks left. They've either been having sex for over a decade or if they saved themselves for marriage, they are happily married or divorced, but either way, not virgins.
You'd be better off finding a girl your age that's still a virgin and getting an LTR with her now if you want to avoid diseases.
Think about it.
Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
At your age dude, its not that bad of a problem YET. In about 3 more years its going to concern you more....HandyAndy said:
daygameguy
Master Don Juan
Same here. but i got over 2 months to be 23 yr old V. I'm such an optimist. lol. But I'm really surprised, I cannot imagine american guys not getting laid by the time they are out of high school. I mean I was in a boys school my whole life, and raised in a conservative society. But you guys, seriously, how come?Rebound Material said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
phatboi408
Senior Don Juan
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
Rebound Material said:
I thought i was going to win with my desolate span of 6 yrs in the late 90's....but OH SH!T!!! That's quite herendous!!!
DO YOU LIVE IN SOME DESOLATE UNDERGROUND CAVE OR SOMETHIN??? :crackup: :crackup: All jokes aside...I think we have a winner!!!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
tony-montana
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i just rub off alot lol.
SilverSliver
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"I ain't had sex in years can you beat me (off)"
Can you believe it I got slapped
tony-montana
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Since when is there a rule that if your a dude and your a virgin, your first has to be a virgin?
I sometimes consider myself one as I'm 23 and have only been with one girl a few times. I've had other opportunities, but I just wasnt into the chicks.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
I dont think you can include Virgins in this.
Since they have never had sex they dont know what they are missing....
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Rebound Material
Master Don Juan
Oh crap!....so that means my answer doesnt count huh?Tomatoes said:
(cough)LUKE SKYWALKER!(ahem)Tomatoes said:
I haven't had sex since I was like 19. With a fxcking HORRIBLE sorority girl who lied about not being with other guys, not having STDs and she occsionally "forgets" to take the pill beforehand. Luckily she didn't get pregnant and I wasn't HIV positive. I wish I couldve waited because despite getting laid with 10 girls it's better to find a decent, clean woman. Hard part is finding a girl who's clean, STD free, nice, and willing to marry me, much less DATE me. LOL
So fellas if your'e still virgins please, please don't waste it on some trick, but if you do make sure you use protection if you don't want a kid or STDs. BTW the more mature the woman, the less she gives a fxck about your virginity. If y'all are too picky then honestly....youre doing something right.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.