“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ain't had sex since 2003. who can beat me?

SmoothTalker

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Hey Downman, I assume you mean you're a virgin because you are afraid of catching a disease from having sex. While its good to worry about your health, consider this.

Every year that you get older, it will become increasingly hard to find a girl your age that is still a virgin (only guaruntee that she's clean).

How long are you going to wait? When you're 30 I doubt there will be any attractive virgin chicks left. They've either been having sex for over a decade or if they saved themselves for marriage, they are happily married or divorced, but either way, not virgins.

You'd be better off finding a girl your age that's still a virgin and getting an LTR with her now if you want to avoid diseases.

Think about it.
 

HandyAndy

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Meh, i dont care about openly admitting that im a virgin, i dont think having sex is such a big deal, despite me saying things like "id do her" on a daily basis...I just hope it (being a virgin) doesnt last until im a full blown adult...
 

Rebound Material

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HandyAndy said:
Meh, i dont care about openly admitting that im a virgin, i dont think having sex is such a big deal, despite me saying things like "id do her" on a daily basis...I just hope it (being a virgin) doesnt last until im a full blown adult...
At your age dude, its not that bad of a problem YET. In about 3 more years its going to concern you more....
 

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IM TOTALLY SERIOUS.

I think whats making this sound so bad is cuz I mentioned 1985 which is the year I was born. Im basically in the same situation as Handy but worse haha. Im about to be a 23 year old virgin in about a month...
Same here. but i got over 2 months to be 23 yr old V. I'm such an optimist. lol. But I'm really surprised, I cannot imagine american guys not getting laid by the time they are out of high school. I mean I was in a boys school my whole life, and raised in a conservative society. But you guys, seriously, how come?
 

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Too much porn! lol We are in another sexual revolution, where sex is acceptable, but it clashes with peoples morals about sex before marriage. Now with diseases, use protection, and have standards with your girls..get to know her. It will help you with the guilt aspect. I only have sex, with a girl if I love her. It may change, but its something I promise to myself, yes it can change, but at least you know you tried to stop yourself.
 

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eh been one and a halft week since my last bump. And allready starting to get shacky : /
 

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ain't had sex since 2003. who can beat me?
I think you've beatin yourself enough already. :crackup:

No but seriously, that is pretty comendable?
 

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Well, In response to some other posts, I am not a virgin. Plus, I felt the pressure when I was 16, I put alot on myself. And that stayed with me for a long time.
 

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Rebound Material said:
Since 1985!


YAY! I think Im winning!:cheer:

I thought i was going to win with my desolate span of 6 yrs in the late 90's....but OH SH!T!!! That's quite herendous!!! :D :D DO YOU LIVE IN SOME DESOLATE UNDERGROUND CAVE OR SOMETHIN??? :crackup: :crackup:

All jokes aside...I think we have a winner!!! :D
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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well i didn't expect such response from this topic. i should clarify a few things to begin with... i have very high standards and it's not that girls are not interested in me... i just stopped chasing girls and going out to clubs/parties. that has definately lowered my chances in getting laid. i think technically i've only had sex once... the second time i got it inside her but i never came. is that still sex? anyway... i turned down many offers in my past (not literally... just never followed up on them) but having so... yeah, 2003 was my first and last time i had sex. i was 18 at the time and she actually loved the fact i was a virgin.

i just rub off alot lol.
 

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I asked a girl that once,
"I ain't had sex in years can you beat me (off)"
Can you believe it I got slapped :)
 

tony-montana

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there goes another lay. just blew off a girl who wanted to go clubbing. hate them places.
 

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Every year that you get older, it will become increasingly hard to find a girl your age that is still a virgin (only guaruntee that she's clean).
Since when is there a rule that if your a dude and your a virgin, your first has to be a virgin?

I sometimes consider myself one as I'm 23 and have only been with one girl a few times. I've had other opportunities, but I just wasnt into the chicks.
 

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God and i thought 3 months was really bad!


I dont think you can include Virgins in this.


Since they have never had sex they dont know what they are missing....
 

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Intresting to know who is the oldest virgin thow...
 

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Tomatoes said:
God and i thought 3 months was really bad!


I dont think you can include Virgins in this.


Since they have never had sex they dont know what they are missing....
Oh crap!....so that means my answer doesnt count huh?:cry:


Tomatoes said:
Intresting to know who is the oldest virgin thow...
(cough)LUKE SKYWALKER!(ahem)
 

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since march of 08. i'm dying for it. =p
 

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since last night

i was a virgin til i was 18 tho. first time sucked
 

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For me it's been about two years. I'm 21.

I haven't had sex since I was like 19. With a fxcking HORRIBLE sorority girl who lied about not being with other guys, not having STDs and she occsionally "forgets" to take the pill beforehand. Luckily she didn't get pregnant and I wasn't HIV positive. I wish I couldve waited because despite getting laid with 10 girls it's better to find a decent, clean woman. Hard part is finding a girl who's clean, STD free, nice, and willing to marry me, much less DATE me. LOL

So fellas if your'e still virgins please, please don't waste it on some trick, but if you do make sure you use protection if you don't want a kid or STDs. BTW the more mature the woman, the less she gives a fxck about your virginity. If y'all are too picky then honestly....youre doing something right.
 
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