"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yeah it Sucks a ton bro.
I've also been told that it may be low testosterone. Do you think it may be that?
sazc
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It could be. It could be a side effect of medication that you are on, as well.
It's a no bueno condition that doesn't make a man feel good about himself. Talk to your doctor and see whay can be done. At the very least, there's Viagra.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeah I'm 5'7" and around 125lbs not much muscle, some guys have told me that I may have low T.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
yes that could cause any number of problems considering what the thyroid does in the body
it's far from normal. well, low sex drive is normal because every person has a different sex drive (some people masturbate 3 times a day, some people do it once a week or once a month), but erectile dysfunction at 20 is only normal if you're benjamin button
I'd definitely say that your early 20s and your teenage years are when your sex drive should normally be at its highest though, but anti-depressants are known to kill sex drive
99% chance your thyroid condition is what's causing both problems though
Sounds like your testosterone levels are low.
Your description of yourself fits low testosterone to a t. Get your levels checked.
Ok, how would you say my description fits it? I've been wondering about it. How would you say things would change if I got it fixed? Do you also think I'd be more successful and attract more women if I gain muscle and get bigger bro?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Do you think I'd be more successful and attract more women if I gain muscle and get bigger?
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
do you think you'd live in a bigger house if you had more money?
Lol, yeah I know it's pretty obvious. So would you say it's my thyroid or low T? Someone said I fit the description of low T. I'm going to get bloodwork done in a couple days.
Low sex drive is a huge sign. Poor erections is another. Little muscle mass.
Get your levels checked and see.
Yeah I'm getting it checked very soon. How would you say it would change my life once it gets back to normal and would you say getting bigger and muscle would have an impact with my success with girls.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Generic viagra from southeast Asia is about 75 cents, for the same pill Phizer gets $20 for.
sazc
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On certain girls yes. Girls are usually attracted to more masculine bigger guys. Womens mental state are wired to be attracted to the mate that will provide them with the strongest offspring.
A higher level of testosterone will increase your libido. It will give you more strength and energy. Working out will put on muscle. Which will also increase your testosterone which will certain girls more.
Problem with soy foods is it will increase estrogen levels which you don't want.
Yeah I've heard from some guys that the boost in testosterone will affect me and change me subconsciously without me even noticing it, do you agree? I'm trying to improve game with girls too I feel like the way they interact with me now compared to when I have a more lean,built and attractive body will be different though so wouldn't that also change how game would be?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.