"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is it normal for a 20 year old guy to have low sex drive and have difficulty achieving and maintaining erections? I've been told that I may have hyperthyroidism condition, could that possibly be the issue?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Not normal. That has to suck. Don't know if your condition has anything to do with the issue but you should talk to your doctor about all of it.
 

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Not normal. That has to suck. Don't know if your condition has anything to do with the issue but you should talk to your doctor about all of it.
Yeah it Sucks a ton bro.
 

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Not normal. That has to suck. Don't know if your condition has anything to do with the issue but you should talk to your doctor about all of it.
I've also been told that it may be low testosterone. Do you think it may be that?
 

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I've also been told that it may be low testosterone. Do you think it may be that?
It could be. It could be a side effect of medication that you are on, as well.

It's a no bueno condition that doesn't make a man feel good about himself. Talk to your doctor and see whay can be done. At the very least, there's Viagra.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It could be. It could be a side effect of medication that you are on, as well.

It's a no bueno condition that doesn't make a man feel good about himself. Talk to your doctor and see whay can be done. At the very least, there's Viagra.
Yeah I'm 5'7" and around 125lbs not much muscle, some guys have told me that I may have low T.
 

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Is it normal for a 20 year old guy to have low sex drive and have difficulty achieving and maintaining erections? I've been told that I may have hyperthyroidism condition, could that possibly be the issue?
yes that could cause any number of problems considering what the thyroid does in the body

it's far from normal. well, low sex drive is normal because every person has a different sex drive (some people masturbate 3 times a day, some people do it once a week or once a month), but erectile dysfunction at 20 is only normal if you're benjamin button

I'd definitely say that your early 20s and your teenage years are when your sex drive should normally be at its highest though, but anti-depressants are known to kill sex drive

99% chance your thyroid condition is what's causing both problems though
 

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Is it normal for a 20 year old guy to have low sex drive and have difficulty achieving and maintaining erections? I've been told that I may have hyperthyroidism condition, could that possibly be the issue?
Sounds like your testosterone levels are low.
 

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Yeah I'm 5'7" and around 125lbs not much muscle, some guys have told me that I may have low T.
Your description of yourself fits low testosterone to a t. Get your levels checked.
 

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Your description of yourself fits low testosterone to a t. Get your levels checked.
Ok, how would you say my description fits it? I've been wondering about it. How would you say things would change if I got it fixed? Do you also think I'd be more successful and attract more women if I gain muscle and get bigger bro?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yes that could cause any number of problems considering what the thyroid does in the body

it's far from normal. well, low sex drive is normal because every person has a different sex drive (some people masturbate 3 times a day, some people do it once a week or once a month), but erectile dysfunction at 20 is only normal if you're benjamin button

I'd definitely say that your early 20s and your teenage years are when your sex drive should normally be at its highest though, but anti-depressants are known to kill sex drive

99% chance your thyroid condition is what's causing both problems though
Do you think I'd be more successful and attract more women if I gain muscle and get bigger?
 

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Do you think I'd be more successful and attract more women if I gain muscle and get bigger?
do you think you'd live in a bigger house if you had more money?
 

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do you think you'd live in a bigger house if you had more money?
Lol, yeah I know it's pretty obvious. So would you say it's my thyroid or low T? Someone said I fit the description of low T. I'm going to get bloodwork done in a couple days.
 

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Ok, how would you say my description fits it? I've been wondering about it. How would you say things would change if I got it fixed? Do you also think I'd be more successful and attract more women if I gain muscle and get bigger bro?
Low sex drive is a huge sign. Poor erections is another. Little muscle mass.

Get your levels checked and see.
 

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Low sex drive is a huge sign. Poor erections is another. Little muscle mass.

Get your levels checked and see.
Yeah I'm getting it checked very soon. How would you say it would change my life once it gets back to normal and would you say getting bigger and muscle would have an impact with my success with girls.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The only time I ever had a problem was for a brief time in law school, where I was not exercising at all. I was also eating a ton of soy burgers, too, because I was a vegetarian then and never had time to cook.

Generic viagra from southeast Asia is about 75 cents, for the same pill Phizer gets $20 for.
 

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goodrx.com has coupons. you take your prescription and the coupon to the pharmacy listed on the site (several will be listed, all mainstream) you tell the pharmacy to fill the prescription outside of your medical plan so you can pay the coupon price. If you have medical insurance, you can then get a form to fill out and mail/fax that form and the receipt to your insurance company to get credit for the purchase. You can also mail a prescription to Canada (google for a pharmacy) and get it filled there. the instructions will be on the website.
 

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Yeah I'm getting it checked very soon. How would you say it would change my life once it gets back to normal and would you say getting bigger and muscle would have an impact with my success with girls.
On certain girls yes. Girls are usually attracted to more masculine bigger guys. Womens mental state are wired to be attracted to the mate that will provide them with the strongest offspring.

A higher level of testosterone will increase your libido. It will give you more strength and energy. Working out will put on muscle. Which will also increase your testosterone which will certain girls more.
 

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The only time I ever had a problem was for a brief time in law school, where I was not exercising at all. I was also eating a ton of soy burgers, too, because I was a vegetarian then and never had time to cook.

Generic viagra from southeast Asia is about 75 cents, for the same pill Phizer gets $20 for.
Problem with soy foods is it will increase estrogen levels which you don't want.
 

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Problem with soy foods is it will increase estrogen levels which you don't want.
Yeah I've heard from some guys that the boost in testosterone will affect me and change me subconsciously without me even noticing it, do you agree? I'm trying to improve game with girls too I feel like the way they interact with me now compared to when I have a more lean,built and attractive body will be different though so wouldn't that also change how game would be?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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