"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is it normal for a 20 year old guy to have low sex drive and have difficulty achieving and maintaining erections? I've been told that I may have hyperthyroidism condition, could that possibly be the issue?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Not normal. That has to suck. Don't know if your condition has anything to do with the issue but you should talk to your doctor about all of it.
 

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Not normal. That has to suck. Don't know if your condition has anything to do with the issue but you should talk to your doctor about all of it.
Yeah it Sucks a ton bro.
 

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Not normal. That has to suck. Don't know if your condition has anything to do with the issue but you should talk to your doctor about all of it.
I've also been told that it may be low testosterone. Do you think it may be that?
 

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I've also been told that it may be low testosterone. Do you think it may be that?
It could be. It could be a side effect of medication that you are on, as well.

It's a no bueno condition that doesn't make a man feel good about himself. Talk to your doctor and see whay can be done. At the very least, there's Viagra.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It could be. It could be a side effect of medication that you are on, as well.

It's a no bueno condition that doesn't make a man feel good about himself. Talk to your doctor and see whay can be done. At the very least, there's Viagra.
Yeah I'm 5'7" and around 125lbs not much muscle, some guys have told me that I may have low T.
 

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Is it normal for a 20 year old guy to have low sex drive and have difficulty achieving and maintaining erections? I've been told that I may have hyperthyroidism condition, could that possibly be the issue?
yes that could cause any number of problems considering what the thyroid does in the body

it's far from normal. well, low sex drive is normal because every person has a different sex drive (some people masturbate 3 times a day, some people do it once a week or once a month), but erectile dysfunction at 20 is only normal if you're benjamin button

I'd definitely say that your early 20s and your teenage years are when your sex drive should normally be at its highest though, but anti-depressants are known to kill sex drive

99% chance your thyroid condition is what's causing both problems though
 

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Is it normal for a 20 year old guy to have low sex drive and have difficulty achieving and maintaining erections? I've been told that I may have hyperthyroidism condition, could that possibly be the issue?
Sounds like your testosterone levels are low.
 

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Yeah I'm 5'7" and around 125lbs not much muscle, some guys have told me that I may have low T.
Your description of yourself fits low testosterone to a t. Get your levels checked.
 

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Your description of yourself fits low testosterone to a t. Get your levels checked.
Ok, how would you say my description fits it? I've been wondering about it. How would you say things would change if I got it fixed? Do you also think I'd be more successful and attract more women if I gain muscle and get bigger bro?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yes that could cause any number of problems considering what the thyroid does in the body

it's far from normal. well, low sex drive is normal because every person has a different sex drive (some people masturbate 3 times a day, some people do it once a week or once a month), but erectile dysfunction at 20 is only normal if you're benjamin button

I'd definitely say that your early 20s and your teenage years are when your sex drive should normally be at its highest though, but anti-depressants are known to kill sex drive

99% chance your thyroid condition is what's causing both problems though
Do you think I'd be more successful and attract more women if I gain muscle and get bigger?
 

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Do you think I'd be more successful and attract more women if I gain muscle and get bigger?
do you think you'd live in a bigger house if you had more money?
 

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do you think you'd live in a bigger house if you had more money?
Lol, yeah I know it's pretty obvious. So would you say it's my thyroid or low T? Someone said I fit the description of low T. I'm going to get bloodwork done in a couple days.
 

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Ok, how would you say my description fits it? I've been wondering about it. How would you say things would change if I got it fixed? Do you also think I'd be more successful and attract more women if I gain muscle and get bigger bro?
Low sex drive is a huge sign. Poor erections is another. Little muscle mass.

Get your levels checked and see.
 

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Low sex drive is a huge sign. Poor erections is another. Little muscle mass.

Get your levels checked and see.
Yeah I'm getting it checked very soon. How would you say it would change my life once it gets back to normal and would you say getting bigger and muscle would have an impact with my success with girls.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The only time I ever had a problem was for a brief time in law school, where I was not exercising at all. I was also eating a ton of soy burgers, too, because I was a vegetarian then and never had time to cook.

Generic viagra from southeast Asia is about 75 cents, for the same pill Phizer gets $20 for.
 

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goodrx.com has coupons. you take your prescription and the coupon to the pharmacy listed on the site (several will be listed, all mainstream) you tell the pharmacy to fill the prescription outside of your medical plan so you can pay the coupon price. If you have medical insurance, you can then get a form to fill out and mail/fax that form and the receipt to your insurance company to get credit for the purchase. You can also mail a prescription to Canada (google for a pharmacy) and get it filled there. the instructions will be on the website.
 

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Yeah I'm getting it checked very soon. How would you say it would change my life once it gets back to normal and would you say getting bigger and muscle would have an impact with my success with girls.
On certain girls yes. Girls are usually attracted to more masculine bigger guys. Womens mental state are wired to be attracted to the mate that will provide them with the strongest offspring.

A higher level of testosterone will increase your libido. It will give you more strength and energy. Working out will put on muscle. Which will also increase your testosterone which will certain girls more.
 

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The only time I ever had a problem was for a brief time in law school, where I was not exercising at all. I was also eating a ton of soy burgers, too, because I was a vegetarian then and never had time to cook.

Generic viagra from southeast Asia is about 75 cents, for the same pill Phizer gets $20 for.
Problem with soy foods is it will increase estrogen levels which you don't want.
 

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Problem with soy foods is it will increase estrogen levels which you don't want.
Yeah I've heard from some guys that the boost in testosterone will affect me and change me subconsciously without me even noticing it, do you agree? I'm trying to improve game with girls too I feel like the way they interact with me now compared to when I have a more lean,built and attractive body will be different though so wouldn't that also change how game would be?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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