"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yeah it Sucks a ton bro.
I've also been told that it may be low testosterone. Do you think it may be that?
sazc
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It could be. It could be a side effect of medication that you are on, as well.
It's a no bueno condition that doesn't make a man feel good about himself. Talk to your doctor and see whay can be done. At the very least, there's Viagra.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yeah I'm 5'7" and around 125lbs not much muscle, some guys have told me that I may have low T.
devilkingx2
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yes that could cause any number of problems considering what the thyroid does in the body
it's far from normal. well, low sex drive is normal because every person has a different sex drive (some people masturbate 3 times a day, some people do it once a week or once a month), but erectile dysfunction at 20 is only normal if you're benjamin button
I'd definitely say that your early 20s and your teenage years are when your sex drive should normally be at its highest though, but anti-depressants are known to kill sex drive
99% chance your thyroid condition is what's causing both problems though
Sounds like your testosterone levels are low.
Your description of yourself fits low testosterone to a t. Get your levels checked.
Ok, how would you say my description fits it? I've been wondering about it. How would you say things would change if I got it fixed? Do you also think I'd be more successful and attract more women if I gain muscle and get bigger bro?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Do you think I'd be more successful and attract more women if I gain muscle and get bigger?
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
do you think you'd live in a bigger house if you had more money?
Lol, yeah I know it's pretty obvious. So would you say it's my thyroid or low T? Someone said I fit the description of low T. I'm going to get bloodwork done in a couple days.
Low sex drive is a huge sign. Poor erections is another. Little muscle mass.
Get your levels checked and see.
Yeah I'm getting it checked very soon. How would you say it would change my life once it gets back to normal and would you say getting bigger and muscle would have an impact with my success with girls.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Bible_Belt
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Generic viagra from southeast Asia is about 75 cents, for the same pill Phizer gets $20 for.
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On certain girls yes. Girls are usually attracted to more masculine bigger guys. Womens mental state are wired to be attracted to the mate that will provide them with the strongest offspring.
A higher level of testosterone will increase your libido. It will give you more strength and energy. Working out will put on muscle. Which will also increase your testosterone which will certain girls more.
Problem with soy foods is it will increase estrogen levels which you don't want.
Yeah I've heard from some guys that the boost in testosterone will affect me and change me subconsciously without me even noticing it, do you agree? I'm trying to improve game with girls too I feel like the way they interact with me now compared to when I have a more lean,built and attractive body will be different though so wouldn't that also change how game would be?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.