"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yeah it Sucks a ton bro.
I've also been told that it may be low testosterone. Do you think it may be that?
sazc
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It could be. It could be a side effect of medication that you are on, as well.
It's a no bueno condition that doesn't make a man feel good about himself. Talk to your doctor and see whay can be done. At the very least, there's Viagra.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yeah I'm 5'7" and around 125lbs not much muscle, some guys have told me that I may have low T.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
yes that could cause any number of problems considering what the thyroid does in the body
it's far from normal. well, low sex drive is normal because every person has a different sex drive (some people masturbate 3 times a day, some people do it once a week or once a month), but erectile dysfunction at 20 is only normal if you're benjamin button
I'd definitely say that your early 20s and your teenage years are when your sex drive should normally be at its highest though, but anti-depressants are known to kill sex drive
99% chance your thyroid condition is what's causing both problems though
Sounds like your testosterone levels are low.
Your description of yourself fits low testosterone to a t. Get your levels checked.
Ok, how would you say my description fits it? I've been wondering about it. How would you say things would change if I got it fixed? Do you also think I'd be more successful and attract more women if I gain muscle and get bigger bro?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Do you think I'd be more successful and attract more women if I gain muscle and get bigger?
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
do you think you'd live in a bigger house if you had more money?
Lol, yeah I know it's pretty obvious. So would you say it's my thyroid or low T? Someone said I fit the description of low T. I'm going to get bloodwork done in a couple days.
Low sex drive is a huge sign. Poor erections is another. Little muscle mass.
Get your levels checked and see.
Yeah I'm getting it checked very soon. How would you say it would change my life once it gets back to normal and would you say getting bigger and muscle would have an impact with my success with girls.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
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Generic viagra from southeast Asia is about 75 cents, for the same pill Phizer gets $20 for.
sazc
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On certain girls yes. Girls are usually attracted to more masculine bigger guys. Womens mental state are wired to be attracted to the mate that will provide them with the strongest offspring.
A higher level of testosterone will increase your libido. It will give you more strength and energy. Working out will put on muscle. Which will also increase your testosterone which will certain girls more.
Problem with soy foods is it will increase estrogen levels which you don't want.
Yeah I've heard from some guys that the boost in testosterone will affect me and change me subconsciously without me even noticing it, do you agree? I'm trying to improve game with girls too I feel like the way they interact with me now compared to when I have a more lean,built and attractive body will be different though so wouldn't that also change how game would be?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.