"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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adding thickness to back?

beastmaster79

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i already have a good lat spread from weighted pull-ups, but viewed from the side i feel i could use some more thickness. any recommendations?

are t-bar rows any good?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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shaunuk

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Deadlifts and rack pulls will add thickness to your whole back, are you doing those? Also like Master Bates said, bent rows add thickness as well. T-bars and other types of rows are decent, but barbell rows are probably better.

-shaun
 

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Rows all the way.
 

mrRuckus

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don't worry; you'll get used to the light soon enough after coming out of that cave
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A combination of Heavy pull ups, Heavy Rows, and moderate pull overs
 
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