"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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8 Signs you are a "Shallow Person"

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I guess I need to stop having emphasis on money. It's pretty shallow. Also, I rank looks in a female as pretty high. Trying to be less shallow.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I guess I need to stop having emphasis on money. It's pretty shallow. Also, I rank looks in a female as pretty high. Trying to be less shallow.
Lolll did not watch vid but ik this is bs.

I like to be shallow at first and i should.
Then look for substance.

Have standards does not equal shallow.
 

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Bruh, that video is nonsense.... Moneymaxxing and looksmaxxing should be your top priorities as a man....
I agree with this, so long as it isn't to the point where it is detrimental to your overall happiness and well being.
 

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Hmm I d say accomplishments not just money. A brilliant jazz musician is probably poor but still following his purpose. And most musos I know r hooked up poor or not and yes that includes old guys.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Also, I rank looks in a female as pretty high. Trying to be less shallow.
I don't believe you can be a straight male and not value looks in women highly.
 

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I've watched a few of that guy's videos.

He always introduces himself as "Dr. whatever" so I looked him up.

His doctorate is in philosophy.

That's almost as bad as having a doctorate in education and calling yourself "Dr. whatever."
 
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