"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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8 Signs you are a "Shallow Person"

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I guess I need to stop having emphasis on money. It's pretty shallow. Also, I rank looks in a female as pretty high. Trying to be less shallow.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I guess I need to stop having emphasis on money. It's pretty shallow. Also, I rank looks in a female as pretty high. Trying to be less shallow.
Lolll did not watch vid but ik this is bs.

I like to be shallow at first and i should.
Then look for substance.

Have standards does not equal shallow.
 

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Bruh, that video is nonsense.... Moneymaxxing and looksmaxxing should be your top priorities as a man....
I agree with this, so long as it isn't to the point where it is detrimental to your overall happiness and well being.
 

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Hmm I d say accomplishments not just money. A brilliant jazz musician is probably poor but still following his purpose. And most musos I know r hooked up poor or not and yes that includes old guys.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Also, I rank looks in a female as pretty high. Trying to be less shallow.
I don't believe you can be a straight male and not value looks in women highly.
 

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I've watched a few of that guy's videos.

He always introduces himself as "Dr. whatever" so I looked him up.

His doctorate is in philosophy.

That's almost as bad as having a doctorate in education and calling yourself "Dr. whatever."
 
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