Poonani Maker
Master Don Juan
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"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
8 Signs you are a "Shallow Person"
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Lolll did not watch vid but ik this is bs.
I like to be shallow at first and i should.
Then look for substance.
Have standards does not equal shallow.
sangheilios
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I agree with this, so long as it isn't to the point where it is detrimental to your overall happiness and well being.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
I don't believe you can be a straight male and not value looks in women highly.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
I've watched a few of that guy's videos.
He always introduces himself as "Dr. whatever" so I looked him up.
His doctorate is in philosophy.
That's almost as bad as having a doctorate in education and calling yourself "Dr. whatever."
He always introduces himself as "Dr. whatever" so I looked him up.
His doctorate is in philosophy.
That's almost as bad as having a doctorate in education and calling yourself "Dr. whatever."