Poonani Maker
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
8 Signs you are a "Shallow Person"
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Lolll did not watch vid but ik this is bs.
I like to be shallow at first and i should.
Then look for substance.
Have standards does not equal shallow.
sangheilios
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I agree with this, so long as it isn't to the point where it is detrimental to your overall happiness and well being.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
I don't believe you can be a straight male and not value looks in women highly.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
I've watched a few of that guy's videos.
He always introduces himself as "Dr. whatever" so I looked him up.
His doctorate is in philosophy.
That's almost as bad as having a doctorate in education and calling yourself "Dr. whatever."
He always introduces himself as "Dr. whatever" so I looked him up.
His doctorate is in philosophy.
That's almost as bad as having a doctorate in education and calling yourself "Dr. whatever."