"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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8 Signs you are a "Shallow Person"

Poonani Maker

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I guess I need to stop having emphasis on money. It's pretty shallow. Also, I rank looks in a female as pretty high. Trying to be less shallow.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I guess I need to stop having emphasis on money. It's pretty shallow. Also, I rank looks in a female as pretty high. Trying to be less shallow.
Lolll did not watch vid but ik this is bs.

I like to be shallow at first and i should.
Then look for substance.

Have standards does not equal shallow.
 

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Bruh, that video is nonsense.... Moneymaxxing and looksmaxxing should be your top priorities as a man....
I agree with this, so long as it isn't to the point where it is detrimental to your overall happiness and well being.
 

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Hmm I d say accomplishments not just money. A brilliant jazz musician is probably poor but still following his purpose. And most musos I know r hooked up poor or not and yes that includes old guys.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Also, I rank looks in a female as pretty high. Trying to be less shallow.
I don't believe you can be a straight male and not value looks in women highly.
 

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I've watched a few of that guy's videos.

He always introduces himself as "Dr. whatever" so I looked him up.

His doctorate is in philosophy.

That's almost as bad as having a doctorate in education and calling yourself "Dr. whatever."
 
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