"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
8 pak
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
diablo
Master Don Juan
For a 12 pack, check your local convenience store.
Jesus, is this guy for real? I mean, come on. Learn 1st grade HUMAN ANATOMY before you post questions like this. I'm trying not to flame, but the temptation is too great... can't .. hold.. out...
Exericses. Run like a bitch, diet, and start lifting weights. Uh, if you are 15, I hear weights can stunt your growth, so don't overdue it. But of course, it's different for different people. Don't try just doing 8000 situps a day to get a pack, you need to burn that fat.
Soma
Banned
Can you imagine a guy with a 12 pak?! hahah. That would be some freaky, otherworldy alien shiet goin on. Goddamned Mexicans.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
LOL Okay that was funny. A mexican has a 12 pack?!!? I never heard of that... I think your lying to me buddy!
I'm mexican though but only have a 4 pack. Oh well, I'm getting there eh? Oh 8 pack... I think he's talking about the rib bone under the chest area? Like right under the chest and to the side of the 6 pack, theres an bone that looks like a muscle, unless I'm mistaken and it is a muscle. I dunno, can someone confirm this?
Soma
Banned
haha, no, you goober. The Mexican comment was in reference to the Alien remark I made.
Mexicans...illegal immigrants...aliens..get it?
I mean, really, c'mon, the only time a Mexican has a 12 pak is after he steals it from 7-11.
CapiCrimini
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while your at it why not skip cardio and just use a vacumm tub to suck out the fat.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
diablo
Master Don Juan
It's called liposuction.
This Times For Real
Don Juan
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Senior Don Juan
It looks best when it's symetric. If it's crooked.. It's still fine.