"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
8 pak
- Thread starter dawg89
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
diablo
Master Don Juan
For a 12 pack, check your local convenience store.
Jesus, is this guy for real? I mean, come on. Learn 1st grade HUMAN ANATOMY before you post questions like this. I'm trying not to flame, but the temptation is too great... can't .. hold.. out...
Exericses. Run like a bitch, diet, and start lifting weights. Uh, if you are 15, I hear weights can stunt your growth, so don't overdue it. But of course, it's different for different people. Don't try just doing 8000 situps a day to get a pack, you need to burn that fat.
Soma
Banned
Can you imagine a guy with a 12 pak?! hahah. That would be some freaky, otherworldy alien shiet goin on. Goddamned Mexicans.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
LOL Okay that was funny. A mexican has a 12 pack?!!? I never heard of that... I think your lying to me buddy!
I'm mexican though but only have a 4 pack. Oh well, I'm getting there eh? Oh 8 pack... I think he's talking about the rib bone under the chest area? Like right under the chest and to the side of the 6 pack, theres an bone that looks like a muscle, unless I'm mistaken and it is a muscle. I dunno, can someone confirm this?
Soma
Banned
haha, no, you goober. The Mexican comment was in reference to the Alien remark I made.
Mexicans...illegal immigrants...aliens..get it?
I mean, really, c'mon, the only time a Mexican has a 12 pak is after he steals it from 7-11.
CapiCrimini
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while your at it why not skip cardio and just use a vacumm tub to suck out the fat.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
diablo
Master Don Juan
It's called liposuction.
This Times For Real
Don Juan
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Senior Don Juan
It looks best when it's symetric. If it's crooked.. It's still fine.