"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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3rd annual Anti-approach anxiety competition

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Welcome!

As one of the host of the competition and an AA "graduate," I would like to welcome our new participants. You will face many obstacles and challenges in the upcoming weeks. It will begin with simple steps with increasing pace and intensity as time goes by. Only a single winner will stand at the end. Furthermore, the participant who makes the most progress each week, will get to give Gray and I a challenge, through which we will compete against each other. We will share successes and null results. This is going to be fun.

I used to be terrified of the approach; and let me tell you: it never goes away completely, you just have to overcome the fear with your desire to meet women. You are the only one who can do this on your behalf. So what's it going to be? Change and growth or hesitation and masturbation?

Let the battle begin on February 18th :box:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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After being dumped by that 5, I guess an AA competition is alright / I have no day game whatsoever ; this should be a huge challenge!
 

Gray The Prince

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'm so stoked for this. I got rejected in some different ways (telling something to a random girl and they just walk off saying "yeah ok") haha. I loved it.
 

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Count me in sir!

I reckon I've got about 10 numbers off cold approaching girls in my entire life so this could be interesting!!!
 

TDH

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I might have to enter this competition
 

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There better be some crazy challenges.

I hope we eventually have to hit on girls in front of their dads, hit on girls who are alone with a guy (who seems like just a friend), and hit on girls while their car is stopped at a red light!

Apocalypse opener too
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sageproduct said:
There better be some crazy challenges.

I hope we eventually have to hit on girls in front of their dads, hit on girls who are alone with a guy (who seems like just a friend), and hit on girls while their car is stopped at a red light!

Apocalypse opener too
I am so not comfortable with this. :nervous:
 

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Great thread. I'm not going to join the contest, but I'm sure I will steal some of these challenges and do them on my own time. :up:
 

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Even though this is a competition.. are we gonna motivate each other? I need that. I wrote this in my first post but I believe you people have read over it.
 

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Wolfbones said:
Even though this is a competition.. are we gonna motivate each other? I need that. I wrote this in my first post but I believe you people have read over it.
Competition is motivation, aim to win
A Don Juan would want no less.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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nroug7 said:
Competition is motivation, aim to win
A Don Juan would want no less.
I see! Well to be honest.. this is exciting and I already feel motivated. :D
 

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Wolfbones said:
I am so not comfortable with this. :nervous:
Good! Comfort zones are for pvssies. Time to step up and see Wtf you got young'un.
 

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Remember guys, you have until Sunday at 11:59 pm to sign up!
 

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Bumping this up.

Also, Purefilth, I just don't want to get my ass kicked, lol. I'm just careful, that's all.
 

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Bumping this up.

Also, Purefilth, I just don't want to get my ass kicked, lol. I'm just careful, that's all.
In that situation - try chatting to the father first,:flowers: and completely ignore the girl, make him comfortable with you and slowly include her - saves on the asskicking.:box:

Basically use him as a pivot. :up:

Its a bit like meeting the gf's parents for the first time.
:cool:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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