"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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3rd annual Anti-approach anxiety competition

Masculinity

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Welcome!

As one of the host of the competition and an AA "graduate," I would like to welcome our new participants. You will face many obstacles and challenges in the upcoming weeks. It will begin with simple steps with increasing pace and intensity as time goes by. Only a single winner will stand at the end. Furthermore, the participant who makes the most progress each week, will get to give Gray and I a challenge, through which we will compete against each other. We will share successes and null results. This is going to be fun.

I used to be terrified of the approach; and let me tell you: it never goes away completely, you just have to overcome the fear with your desire to meet women. You are the only one who can do this on your behalf. So what's it going to be? Change and growth or hesitation and masturbation?

Let the battle begin on February 18th :box:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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After being dumped by that 5, I guess an AA competition is alright / I have no day game whatsoever ; this should be a huge challenge!
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm so stoked for this. I got rejected in some different ways (telling something to a random girl and they just walk off saying "yeah ok") haha. I loved it.
 

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Count me in sir!

I reckon I've got about 10 numbers off cold approaching girls in my entire life so this could be interesting!!!
 

TDH

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I might have to enter this competition
 

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There better be some crazy challenges.

I hope we eventually have to hit on girls in front of their dads, hit on girls who are alone with a guy (who seems like just a friend), and hit on girls while their car is stopped at a red light!

Apocalypse opener too
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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sageproduct said:
There better be some crazy challenges.

I hope we eventually have to hit on girls in front of their dads, hit on girls who are alone with a guy (who seems like just a friend), and hit on girls while their car is stopped at a red light!

Apocalypse opener too
I am so not comfortable with this. :nervous:
 

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Great thread. I'm not going to join the contest, but I'm sure I will steal some of these challenges and do them on my own time. :up:
 

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Even though this is a competition.. are we gonna motivate each other? I need that. I wrote this in my first post but I believe you people have read over it.
 

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Wolfbones said:
Even though this is a competition.. are we gonna motivate each other? I need that. I wrote this in my first post but I believe you people have read over it.
Competition is motivation, aim to win
A Don Juan would want no less.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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nroug7 said:
Competition is motivation, aim to win
A Don Juan would want no less.
I see! Well to be honest.. this is exciting and I already feel motivated. :D
 

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Wolfbones said:
I am so not comfortable with this. :nervous:
Good! Comfort zones are for pvssies. Time to step up and see Wtf you got young'un.
 

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Participants as of 2/15/13 at 11:35 pm CST
Neon Owl
coachD
packers2010
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Plutoman
Dali tx o
nroug07
gunner26
JohnChops
Nobodycares1
AAAgent
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Remember guys, you have until Sunday at 11:59 pm to sign up!
 

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Bumping this up.

Also, Purefilth, I just don't want to get my ass kicked, lol. I'm just careful, that's all.
 

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Bumping this up.

Also, Purefilth, I just don't want to get my ass kicked, lol. I'm just careful, that's all.
In that situation - try chatting to the father first,:flowers: and completely ignore the girl, make him comfortable with you and slowly include her - saves on the asskicking.:box:

Basically use him as a pivot. :up:

Its a bit like meeting the gf's parents for the first time.
:cool:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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