"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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3rd annual Anti-approach anxiety competition

Gray The Prince

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=190530

Last year's competition^

Hello all, GTP here yet again. About 2 years ago, AAAgent began a competition to eliminate Approach Anxiety. Nearly 30 guys entered, myself included and I finished in the Top 4 in a 4-way tie with Robyn, PrettyBoyAJ and another guy whose name slips me at the moment. I launched the 2nd annual competition last year and together with Robyn, we coordinated it and Roman81 emerged victorious.

This competiton has truly changed my daygame and killed my Approach Anxiety because it caused me to step out of my comfort zone. It's about to be spring soon, so as a new SS tradition, I am announcing the 3rd competition. I also want to give everybody ample time to sign up, so I think i'll give everybody about a week in order to do so.


That being said, if you want to start getting to work early, Like I said last year, who am I to stop ya?


Oh and all credit and creation of the original competition and general rules go to AAAgent.


Same rules apply as last year:

1.) No veterans allowed. We all know who you are. However, if you wana post tips, encouragement, etc. PLEASE do so.

2.) Tasks must be completed and posted on time. Estimated 1 week time span for each task/objective. Start on Monday and you must post by Sunday 11:59pm or you are eliminated.

3.) Encouragement and tips are highly recommended as to create better/more fierce competition so that we can better ourselves and better each other.

4.) Just because you fair well with the opposite sex doesn't mean you fair well in approaches/AA. If you are one of the guys that has women approach you but cannot approach, you're welcome to join in.

5.) Do not lie about your approaches/tasks. Even though we have no way of knowing whether or not you are lying, just be a man and accept defeat. Failure is evident on the path to success.

6.) You are to get a phone number if the tasks call you to do so. E-Mail, facebook, things that aren't phone numbers DO NOT count.
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We will do a two strikes rule. If you fail to meet an objective twice, you are eliminated from the competition no ifs ans or buts. As each round progresses, the tasks will become more and more difficult.


Any questions, comments or concerns, please PM me or post them in this thread. Good luck to you all.




Participants
Neon Owl
coachD
packers2010
parad0x
Nite
Sageproduct
Plutoman
Dali tx o
nroug07
gunner26
JohnChops
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Neon Owl

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Fvck it why not. Count me in.
 

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I'm in. This is exactly what I need. For the record, I'm planning on starting my own 30 day challenge of approaching an attractive woman everyday on Wednesday or Thursday.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gray The Prince said:
4.) Just because you fair well with the opposite sex doesn't mean you fair well in approaches/AA. If you are one of the guys that has women approach you but cannot approach, you're welcome to join in.
I'm the opposite. I can approach but I don't fare well with the opposite sex in general. Can I join?
 

Gray The Prince

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sageproduct said:
I'm the opposite. I can approach but I don't fare well with the opposite sex in general. Can I join?

Yeah. Updating the list now.



Packers2010 said:
BOOO!

i don't even care! I'm still entering. i have to make it to number 1 now!

Actually, I was going to invite you to join anyway. This will do you some serious good and help you get out of your rut.
 

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I should be down for this, as long as I can keep the time moving. Should be able to work stuff in between classes on campus though. Won't hurt to get more under my belt. Demonpenz needs to get in and do this..
 

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...Oooh, challenge for oneself!

Sign me up; Can't promise anything, but if my work/travel schedule allows it, I'll participate!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Gunner26

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I planned on doing this last year but pussied out of putting my name down.

Not this year.

Sign me up, let's give this thing a go.

Gunner
 

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Looking forward to this competition's stories and burns :up:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NobodyCares1

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I remember I entered last year but didn't have enough time to complete the tasks on time... and I almost definitely won't have time this year since I am writing a school leaving exam soon and have a lot of learning to do.

Still I want to join... at least try to do some of it. I've haven't really approached in a long time.
 

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I'd like in...I don't really consider myself a veteran at approaching since i don't think i've ever made any approaches in the competition. So if you'll have me, i'm in.

I remember i created a spreadsheet for this the first time around, was interesting watching you guys duke it out.
 

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Gray The Prince said:
I got you down.
Thanks Gray, ill be on campus forever since well I'm addicted to studying so this should work well. What's the main focus to get as many approaches as possible or we have to reach a fixed amount by a deadline ?
 

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Count me in. I see this as a way to come out of my shell. Maybe this will help me stop stalling and start approaching random girls and start my own journal. (For real this time!) Will you guys also post motivational stuff here to keep everyone going on? That's what I need the most. Motivation. And someone to push me. And by someone, I mean my fellow DJ'ers. I'm excited.
 

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Im a busy ass man, but I'd like the opportunity to join in :D

How do we get the challenges?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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