"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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pyros

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I've been seing this 21 years old girl for two months or so now...she's a lot of fun, and sex is good BUT...she's a complete slvt.

In all this time we've been seing each other, she's told me that:
1 She's still banging her ex bf. Sometimes she tells me this, sometimes she denies it. She contradicts herself.
2 She's had a threesome with her bf and another girl, but it wasn't a very good experience. She would prefer to do it with two guys. Nice...
3 She bangs other dudes from time to time. She has a lot of male 'friends'.
4 She drinks too much. And she gets drunk almost every weekend.
5 She just told me yesterday that she doesnt mind anal sex.
6 She has sex with new guys if she likes them and they go on at least two dates. lol....

AND SHE'S JUST 21!

In the last two dates she's been acting more like a gf than like a fvck buddy and has asked me if I am seing other girls.

So it seems she would like to have something more serious but she's a total slvt...lmao...

How can the fvck does she even consider that I'd like to have a serious relationship with HER? lmaoooo...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girls never think on the long term of things and don't ever get reprimanded for their actions. Chances are, there's some guy that's begging her be in a relationship.
 

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It would be the most foolish thing to do, to reward a girl like this with a relationship.

This one stays a plate or FB forever.
 

pyros

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No, I dont consider her relationship material.

She always talks about some of her guys friend with whome she went on "a couple of dates" and they are now "just friends".
So be it. Same thing is gonna happen with me. We keep seing each other...and if at some point she wants more, sorry but its not gonna happen. We either keep it casual, or even more casual like once a month lol.

I met other girl a few years ago that behaved in a similar way. These chicks have high libido, are open minded, and actually need to have sex with several guys at any moment. It is like they have a male brain in a woman's body.

Jeez...it is perfect for a fwb relationship but it really amazes me how they think they are relationship material as well LMAO...

And she's not even that hot lol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No, I dont consider her relationship material.

She always talks about some of her guys friend with whome she went on "a couple of dates" and they are now "just friends".
So be it. Same thing is gonna happen with me. We keep seing each other...and if at some point she wants more, sorry but its not gonna happen. We either keep it casual, or even more casual like once a month lol.

I met other girl a few years ago that behaved in a similar way. These chicks have high libido, are open minded, and actually need to have sex with several guys at any moment. It is like they have a male brain in a woman's body.

Jeez...it is perfect for a fwb relationship but it really amazes me how they think they are relationship material as well LMAO...

And she's not even that hot lol.
Some folk are addicted to the "new" or the "different". As you see why even bother trying to have a relationship with them? Unless you guys are going to be swingers.
 

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No, I dont consider her relationship material.

She always talks about some of her guys friend with whome she went on "a couple of dates" and they are now "just friends".
So be it. Same thing is gonna happen with me. We keep seing each other...and if at some point she wants more, sorry but its not gonna happen. We either keep it casual, or even more casual like once a month lol.

I met other girl a few years ago that behaved in a similar way. These chicks have high libido, are open minded, and actually need to have sex with several guys at any moment. It is like they have a male brain in a woman's body.

Jeez...it is perfect for a fwb relationship but it really amazes me how they think they are relationship material as well LMAO...

And she's not even that hot lol.
The funny part is the crazy sluuts usually aren't. Not ugly per say but not hot either
 

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I have a picture of this girl in my mind and its not pretty ........

are you desperate or something ? , the girl is BARE son

she sounds like a one trick pony at best ,WHY are you still entertaining her at all ? lmao
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just keep f*cking her. That's what sluts are for. Nothing to analyze here.

Keep spinning plates as well. Don't make the mistake of respecting her because she SEEMS loyal and committed to you. At 21 her personality will do several 180's in the next decade. There is nothing consistent about women. That's why you always lease and never buy. Let the thirsty desperate betas buy these used up wh0res (marriage) after their mileage gets high. YOU just keep trading in for newer sexier models.
 

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Yuck.... Knowing she's banging that many other guys on the regular, you still want to stick your **** in crazy?
 

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Just keep f*cking her. That's what sluts are for. Nothing to analyze here.

Keep spinning plates as well. Don't make the mistake of respecting her because she SEEMS loyal and committed to you. At 21 her personality will do several 180's in the next decade. There is nothing consistent about women. That's why you always lease and never buy. Let the thirsty desperate betas buy these used up wh0res (marriage) after their mileage gets high. YOU just keep trading in for newer sexier models.
ya seriously, why are you trying to wife this girl up .... people here catch feelings so effing easily.
 

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It seems some ppl here do not read very well.

I just want her for a fwb relationship cause she's fun, she does good sex, and that's all. I do not want anything serious or long term with her lol.
Slvts are good for only one thing, but its funy how so many guys would like to have a serious relationship with them LMAO.
 

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It seems some ppl here do not read very well.

I just want her for a fwb relationship cause she's fun, she does good sex, and that's all. I do not want anything serious or long term with her lol.
Slvts are good for only one thing, but its funy how so many guys would like to have a serious relationship with them LMAO.
You are what you ****.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oh yes, "I know she's ****ed half the men on the planet, let me just keep doing it with her. Screw morals, standards or the chances of disease lol".

You're a smart one.
 

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She's a freak. Treat her accordingly.

Please don't get attached and get lovey dovey feelings for her any time soon. It will most likely ruin you. She is still seeing her ex, and dating other guys. Whats funny is she wants you to stop seeing other girls, yet she is all over the place with the ex still in the picture. She needs to first clear up HER act before things get serious.

These types of girls are unreliable, and can be nutcases a lot of the time. On top of that she is quite young. She might be completely different in an LTR but it's unlikely. Look at how her last LTR turned out with her ex. Tread carefully if you're going for anything serious with her.
 

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I've been seing this 21 years old girl for two months or so now...she's a lot of fun, and sex is good BUT...she's a complete slvt.

In all this time we've been seing each other, she's told me that:
1 She's still banging her ex bf. Sometimes she tells me this, sometimes she denies it. She contradicts herself.
2 She's had a threesome with her bf and another girl, but it wasn't a very good experience. She would prefer to do it with two guys. Nice...
3 She bangs other dudes from time to time. She has a lot of male 'friends'.
4 She drinks too much. And she gets drunk almost every weekend.
5 She just told me yesterday that she doesnt mind anal sex.
6 She has sex with new guys if she likes them and they go on at least two dates. lol....

AND SHE'S JUST 21!

In the last two dates she's been acting more like a gf than like a fvck buddy and has asked me if I am seing other girls.

So it seems she would like to have something more serious but she's a total slvt...lmao...

How can the fvck does she even consider that I'd like to have a serious relationship with HER? lmaoooo...
Haha...I always used to find about if they liked anal the first time we fvcked cause if they were down for it I would definitely be stretching that tight little ass out by the end of the night...

Plus all the others I convinced to try it
 

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I think you're catching feelings. You wouldnt post a thread otherwise. But youre aware of what she is. Id say do the anal if its your cup of tea and then gently push her away, just stop communicating.
 

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I've been seing this 21 years old girl for two months or so now...she's a lot of fun, and sex is good BUT...she's a complete slvt.

In all this time we've been seing each other, she's told me that:
1 She's still banging her ex bf. Sometimes she tells me this, sometimes she denies it. She contradicts herself.
2 She's had a threesome with her bf and another girl, but it wasn't a very good experience. She would prefer to do it with two guys. Nice...
3 She bangs other dudes from time to time. She has a lot of male 'friends'.
4 She drinks too much. And she gets drunk almost every weekend.
5 She just told me yesterday that she doesnt mind anal sex.
6 She has sex with new guys if she likes them and they go on at least two dates. lol....

AND SHE'S JUST 21!

In the last two dates she's been acting more like a gf than like a fvck buddy and has asked me if I am seing other girls.

So it seems she would like to have something more serious but she's a total slvt...lmao...

How can the fvck does she even consider that I'd like to have a serious relationship with HER? lmaoooo...
Stop taking her on dates. This isnt a date type of girl. This is a netflix and chill type of girl. Enjoy sex with her and cut her off
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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