She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
If you fbcked up do your thang until she requests you to come back.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Been too long. 5 almost 6 months. 3 months NC (after some AFC post break up), then I initiated, it worked, she called, then it backfired, then I disappeared again. Gotta re-attract her somehow. She’s strong and stubborn when she wants to be. Weak for me when I have her around me though when I touch her. I wanna marry this idiot eventually. I don’t believe in “impossible”. Though admittedly this is a pretty tough situation. It has been much easier to get new women. But still. We were together almost 6 years. And none of the new ones come close.
Marry her for what? So you can complain about a bad relationship? Just stay on your purpose. Fvck new chycks she will come sniffing around. Dont worry about reattracting chicks. Focus on the females whose giving you puzzy.
Well.... 1. She’s a 10. 2. she doesn’t want kids, (neither do I). 3. Not materialistic. 4. She doesn’t have that feminism bull**** in her head. 5. She helped me build my business without asking for anything in return. 6. She makes good money so divorce doesn’t worry me as much as it did when I refused to marry her. 7. She’s a 10 lol
Take away the 10 and make it a 6 and is it the same?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Of course not. But still. Great girl. And she IS.
Savage af...I like that
Well, I’m no expert but have been here a couple years now, maybe closer to 3. I married a 10, 3 awesome children, was with her 17 years. It wouldn’t be easy by any means, but could get her back. I don’t even want to try because I know I would succeed and I don’t want her. She’s no longer a 10 btw. She’s 40 and overweight and a mean one to boot today.
I understand that. and Agree with it. But I’m here for help and to learn. I’m not what u think I am. However, I respect those who know more than I do. So I’m not going to argue with you. Makes no sense. It’d be like a yellow belt trying to tell a black belt they should be scared of them.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Then learn buddy.
I know. I’ve done this. I’m turning 32 this year. Not some kid. That’s how I got her (and others), and everything else I’ve accomplished in my life in the first place. She’s just the only one I cared about keeping. No LTR before her. Only plates. Didn’t even know what plates were when I had plates. I just didn’t like any “ONE” enough to be monogamous with. Plates are easy. LTR.... not so much apparently.
I thought we had this conversation in PM?
We did. I’m working on it. Thanks to you I’m back on track. I’d just like additional input. I’d hate for this one to slip away forever.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Okay then.
When I say back on track, I mean my own shyt. So thank you. But I Still haven’t heard from her or anything. I hate leaving things up to fate. I’m a take control kinda guy. If I wait too long, I know someone WILL marry her. If I post a pic of her, you’ll understand.