"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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    10 Steps to Winning Back Your Ex

    Hey all: Soooo... lemme start off by saying: some people are going to read the title and automatically think: "what a waste of time! Why would anyone want to get their ex-girlfriend back?!?" And believe me, I agree. In fact, since I've started giving relationship advice, the one thing I...
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