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    Feedback Wanted - She's changing

    Hi guys, I'm going to simply type my situation the best way I can describe it, and then you guys can attempt to tell me what's the best plan of action. Let me preface my post by saying that I'm posting because this girl is beginning to change and I'm wondering if I might have caused it. So...
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    Gaji attempt (will not fail) .. how am I doing?

    So this girl I was hooking up with for about 9 months .. we break it off. Today is 1 day and 3 weeks after the last time I've said anything to her. It's the longest I've gone without acknowledging her existence since we started hooking up. I'm getting over her more and more each day, even on day...
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    This goes against everything but...

    Alright so I think I've made up my mind. This situation has been escalating for the past few months and well, I'm truly happy with it. For once I think I found a girl who is actually different. I know, I know; I sound like every other guy on here who think they've found "the one." I'll walk you...
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    How did I handle this?

    If you read my last post, I've been seeing H for 9 months. We're not together. I told her I was taking her out two days before I was actually taking her out. The day comes along and I text her when I wake up to confirm. Eventually it works out and I see her. Fast foward to present time. The...
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    My feelings and emotions confuse me ...

    Here's the situation ... There's two different plates I'm going hooking up with. The first one, let's call her H, I've been with for the past 9 months. I took her virginity 6 months into the 9 months and haven't had sex since because she said the month after that was her worst experience ever...
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    I did NOT just get LJBF -- wtf is this?

    This LJBF crap seriously did not just happen. When I explain the situation you'll understand why I'm so confused and figure I must be understanding something wrong, which is what I hope someone can clear up for me. So this girl I've been seeing for 8 months hits me up the other day. She is...
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    2 Strike Rule/Actually Busy

    Just a thought here ... maybe some opinions would help me out. I understand the purpose of the 2 strike rule, and I understand there are exceptions because she might actually be busy and not flaking. How about a situation where you've been hooking up for months ... over 6. How does the rule...
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    Oneitis ... this is a problem

    I really don't know how to handle this one guys, and it's been eating at me all day. Quick summary ... been hooking up with this girl, let's call her Sally, for a little over 7 months. We went out 3 months into the hooking up period, for a few weeks, but I had to break it off because of her...
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    Lost virginity to each other -- she says no more sex?

    So I have a fairly odd situation. I feel like I could handle it my own way and still get what I want, but I'm interested in opinions on what I should do. I've been with this girl for a few months, not in a relationship, but hooking-up etc. We had sex for the first time, both of our first...
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    **** why do I always go limp

    This is pissing me the **** off ... More than once I've been in bed with a girl and after she gets done sucking me off I go completely limp while trying to penetrate. It's ****ing with my confidence so hard right now. I don't even know what to do or why it's happening.
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    How do I make her first time special? Taking her V

    So basically I've prodded a few times but never gone completely through with it. I know I'm able to tease her enough so she will give it up. I'm wondering what are some good ideas to make it unforgettable. One thing I know I'm doing is a rose under the pillow for afterward .. her favorite...
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    I feel like half the stuff taught here is wrong now

    I'm told to "be myself." I'm told not to be a fake person, to be ****y and funny to girls. I'm told to be mysterious and not reveal anything about myself because it will lower IL. I've done everything perfectly and to the T with my current GF. She complains that she knows nothing about me...
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    Tips on getting her to go down

    Yeah .. I've went down twice and she told me that she feels like she would be forcing herself to do it and that it just doesn't feel right for her to go down on me. What a load of horse sh*t. Someone explain how I can make her feel more comfortable or whatever I have to do because I'm confused.
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    What the f am I gay?

    So this girl I've been hooking up with for the past month finally decides to move her hand downstairs on me. It's her first time ever so she obviously doesn't know what she's doing. It feels pretty good but I'm no where near jizzing. We're making out the whole time and stuff but eventually I...
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    Disqualifying herself....??

    So part of the game is qualifying the women you are gaming. The theory behind this is you are the prize and are DHVing by qualifying. I'm unsure what to do when the girl I'm talking to starts disqualifying herself. Example Me: "do this blah blah blah and you'll have a chance to make my top...
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    What do you do in this situation?

    Not a big deal but I'm looking for advice for this type of situation because it's bound to happen again. I've hooked up with girl A for the past month, probably about 5 times. I asked her Tues what her work schedule was like this week (it changes every week) and she blah blah. She doesn't...
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    LMR while hooking up

    So I have a little problem. This girl I'm hooking up with has never been past 2nd and seems real hesitant about it. From our 1st hookup to our 3rd last night I've been making slow but steady progress. When I was driving her home we started talking and she said the reason why she won't let me in...
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    Okkkk do I next her? I've been perfect so far..

    Rather confusing situation here... Few weeks ago I got this girl's number at a party we were at. Everything that happened there went about as best as I could have, given the circumstances. We hang out at a mall with about 15 of my friends the next Friday. I got mad social proof not only from...
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    Club FR

    So the past weekend I went to a club in a huge city. First time ever going to a club. It was an underage club for the most part .. for high school kids. Before this outing I thought of myself as a pretty suave individual that is a solid 7/10 purely on looks. I'm fairly tall, dressed well, and...
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    Mystery factor? + hook-up

    How much of a factor is the whole "be mysterious" part? The part where I don't tell her how many girls I've been with, or how far I've gone .. I'd really like to tell her, but I'm not sure it's the right thing to do. She was asking me all night trying to find out, but I held out on by telling...
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