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    Will I hear from her again?

    This is a unique situation for me, somewhat frustrating. I've never hooked up with a girl this much older, so she's a bit of a new species for me. Take that into account. I texted this 28 year old girl Saturday night on a fluke, I really didn't think I meet up with her that night. We had been...
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    i asked her out, she declined but rescheduled, so who contacts who?

    Asked this girl out for a drink tonight. She didnt respond right away, and when she did she said she was busy, but "how about this weekend?" I said sure. My question is who contacts who when the weekend comes? Keep in mind that i havent seen this girl since i met her at a bar a couple weeks...
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    Unsure about situation with shy girl after first date

    I met a girl on OkC a few months ago, and we've been chatting online ever since. We finally met in person about a week ago--we got coffee and spent some time walking around. It was fun, and based on what we said to each other when it was over, it definitely seemed to me that we would meet again...
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    How can I keep the positive momentum going?

    I seem to go through distinct phases on this whole "path to becoming a Don Juan" and whatnot. And I'm not just talking about women; there are many aspects of my life that I'm trying to get handled. Stuff like progressing in my career and developing my passion projects. Also, I'm trying to become...
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    How can I recover from an awkward phone call?

    About three and a half weeks ago I met a girl at a bar. We did a lot of dancing--lots of kino. I could tell she was into me. I got her number at the end of the night. I texted her the next day and it went alright, though I think I stretched it out a little too much. Over the next couple...
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    A little confused

    Saturday night a girl texts me asking if I want to hangout Sunday. I tell her I have plans but ask her if she is free Monday; she says she is. I don't text her back after she says she is free because I assume it's implied we are hanging out on Monday. On Monday I call her, but get no...
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    Low Interest/Low Value

    I hungout with an Asian HB yesterday and at the end of the day I was left with the impression that there was little interest on her part and the impression that she perceives me as a person of low value. A couple reasons I have come to this conclusion are: While we were leaving the mall she...
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    Getting over shyness/learning social skills

    Well, this last week i had an epiphany. It was the last week of finals at my college I finally got a chance to talk to this cool girl I've been crushing on for a while but never had the balls to talk to. Turns out that she's a friend of my friend and we all ended up smoking together on Monday...
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    Why does this keep happening to me?

    I was at my gf's house today (she still lives with her mom), and her mom was out so we were on my gf's bed making out pretty hard. I made a move to pull off her shirt and initiate sex, but she tells me "we can't" and from that point I totally shut down. I basically stopped making out with...
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    Getting rid of oneitis but keeping the relationship intact?

    Is it possible? I've been dating this girl for the past 2 months, and to be frank; I'm pretty much obsessed with her. I think about her all the time, which means I'm always anxious when I'm not with her. I am always wondering what she's up to, and worrying about who she's hanging out with. I...
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    I think there might be something fishy going on...

    My girlfriend texted me today asking if I wanted to do anything tonight. I told her I was going out with a few friends and told her it's cool if she comes. to which she responds some old 'friend' she hasn't hung out with in ages wanted to hang out today. I tell her its cool if she wants to hang...
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    Girlfriend more popular than i am...

    She's not in a higher social class or anything,we have some friends in common. She just has a lot more of them simply. It's probably just because I'm more of a quiet guy. It never really bothered me until today when she asked me if i wanted to go to a local show her friend's band is...
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    This situation just seems a little odd to me...

    So I made plans last night to take a girl I've been seeing for a couple weeks out to dinner tonight for her birthday. At about noon today she texts me saying: "Ah I decided Id rather just go to a movie tonight with u" I didn't reply and about thirty minutes later she texted me again...
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    What givens you the most confidence before you go out?

    For me it looking in the mirror and liking what I see. If I say, "damn I look good" before for i go out I'll feel good the whole night. Of course this can have the opposite effect as well. If I think I look like sh!t then I will feel like sh!t. Anyone else have any other tips for a quick...
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    Started Accutane about a week ago, anyone have any experiences?

    I've been on 60mg a day the past 6 days, so far there are no noticable side effects except for mild headaches since I started taking it...my acne seems to be getting better and worse at the same time, if that makes any sense. I'm just so tired of this acne sapping my confidence, I know I have...
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    Girlfriend kissed another guy...then apologized

    My gf was out with another guy the other night and said all they did was kiss and hold hands. She than apologized and promised to never do it again. I learned from her sister later that my gf didn't get home until 4:30 in the morning. I told her this and she said that they sat in her...
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    Fingering Tips?

    So Friday night I was making out with a girl and we were getting pretty physical . We both had our shirts off, and eventually I got her bra off. I started to slide my hand down her pants without any resistance from her so I assume I had the "green light" to start fingering her. Since I had...
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    Couldn't ejaculate...

    Last night I was getting a hand job from a girl for a good 20-30 minutes and could not ejaculate, I don't know why. I can masturbate on my own just fine, but last night all that happened was me getting a sore and swollen penis. btw the I am a virgin and that was my first hand job
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