Blackhole105
Don Juan
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I hungout with an Asian HB yesterday and at the end of the day I was left with the impression that there was little interest on her part and the impression that she perceives me as a person of low value. A couple reasons I have come to this conclusion are:
While we were leaving the mall she asked if I wanted to smoke. Unfortunately I am on probation and told her this. And, I my eyes, I believe I came off as an fvckup and thusly lowered her opinion of me.
After the mall, we went to Starbucks, and while drinking our coffee we discussed school. She asked me which college I was going to and to my chagrin I told her I was going to a state college. With most other girls this would be a moot point, but this girl is going to a prestigious college and the notion of dating someone from an average school probably turned her off. She never asked what I was studying, which is something that has never happened to me before, and I think she believes that I may be destined for mediocrity; I have no intentions for a LTR with this girl, but I sure her visions of my future affects her feelings about me now.
Not to say the “date” was a total disaster; I was friendly and kept her laughing (unfortunately no good kino opportunities), there weren’t many awkward silences, and when I took her home (at her request) she said to call her, but my question is; what is my next move? I know it’s a given not to contact her for a while, but beyond that what can I do to raise my value in this girl’s eyes and raise her interest.
While we were leaving the mall she asked if I wanted to smoke. Unfortunately I am on probation and told her this. And, I my eyes, I believe I came off as an fvckup and thusly lowered her opinion of me.
After the mall, we went to Starbucks, and while drinking our coffee we discussed school. She asked me which college I was going to and to my chagrin I told her I was going to a state college. With most other girls this would be a moot point, but this girl is going to a prestigious college and the notion of dating someone from an average school probably turned her off. She never asked what I was studying, which is something that has never happened to me before, and I think she believes that I may be destined for mediocrity; I have no intentions for a LTR with this girl, but I sure her visions of my future affects her feelings about me now.
Not to say the “date” was a total disaster; I was friendly and kept her laughing (unfortunately no good kino opportunities), there weren’t many awkward silences, and when I took her home (at her request) she said to call her, but my question is; what is my next move? I know it’s a given not to contact her for a while, but beyond that what can I do to raise my value in this girl’s eyes and raise her interest.