“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Why does this keep happening to me?

Blackhole105

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 13, 2007
Messages
51
Reaction score
0
I was at my gf's house today (she still lives with her mom), and her mom was out so we were on my gf's bed making out pretty hard.

I made a move to pull off her shirt and initiate sex, but she tells me "we can't" and from that point I totally shut down. I basically stopped making out with her and became a zombie; I told her I had to leave and get ready for work (even though I had plenty of time to stay)

The thing is I know I'm acting like a douchebag when I do this because most of the times she's right; her mom could come home any minute and we'd be fvcked. And to make things worse her mom did come home about 5 minutes after she told me we cant. And even though I know what I'm doing is hurtful to her (and makes me feel like an *******) I still cant snap out of this unresponsive mood it puts me in.

This has happened several times now and it always strains my relationships. I want to know why this is happening and what I can do to stop it or at least hide it from her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

MotownMack

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 23, 2008
Messages
373
Reaction score
11
Don't be so easily discouraged.

If you think the venue is cramping your style and keeping things from going forward, try this where you know you guys won't get interrupted like when her Mom is gone. You can't really blame her if she's got a nosey or over protective Mom, for not wanting to go there.

What you're doing is not "hurtful" to her- she probably wants to do it on most levles, she's just uncomfortable with the surroundings. Stop turning a simple matter of semantics into a guilt trip.
 

DonGorgon

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 28, 2007
Messages
4,679
Reaction score
102
Location
Studying the fact that all lies contain fragments
Females do what they want when they want ... "CANT" only comes up when they dont want to..

So your job is to make hear really want to soo bad that she does...
 
Last edited:

Mavrick

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 1, 2008
Messages
902
Reaction score
43
Just know that if you keep acting like that you're relationship will soon be over. If you keep that in mind, you won't do it.

Never convey desparation. Not even for sex. When she says no, start off light and try to escalate. Do not try to persuade her or force her. She won't be receptive.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Top